Intimacy

Talking To Your Partner About Lack Of Desire Can Be Challenging… How Do You Do It?

Do you owe your partner sex? What if you promised?   Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nrRQVial9q0 Cathy: How do you tell your partner in a way that's loving and caring that you're just not in the mood? Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And Reid Mihalco from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: How do you do it? What's your advice? Cathy: One, [...]

By | 2016-08-08T19:06:17+00:00 August 8, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills|

What do you do when your libido is low?

Is lack of desire plaguing you? What can you do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you do if your desire level is really low and you're in a relationship or several?  Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Reid: What do you do?  Cathy: It's usually talk about different conversation formula. I think it's a lot [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:39:11+00:00 May 31, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

When Is It Time To Pull Out?

Knowing the sensations just before you come give you greater control and possibility during sex. With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Focus! What are we working on? This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko for http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: We have a question.  Cathy: You actually started this as a joke, but I actually want to know. How do you know [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:32:40+00:00 May 19, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How To Give An Awesome Blowjob!

Ever wonder how you can give a better blowjob? Or what to request for a mind-blowing experience? Learn more with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: How do you give a blowjob? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We teach this amazing workshop on how to give a blowjob. Reid: It's called blowjob grad school, [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:34:09+00:00 April 25, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Intimacy and Connection: Taking, with Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about Taking. Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, here with Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org. We're delighted to have her. She has vast experience and really great insights. In the previous video, we talked about being done to. Now we're going to talk about taking. Betty: In the context of those several [...]

By | 2016-01-07T12:37:42+00:00 February 27, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Receiving vs Being Done To: Betty Martin on Intimacy

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about receiving and being "done to." Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, I’m here with Betty Martin fromhttp://www.BettyMartin.org. Betty has great insight into how people can have more intimacy and connection in really powerful ways. Some of it is really subtle, but it makes just a delightful difference. Betty, what is the [...]

By | 2016-01-07T12:37:27+00:00 February 24, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Taking and Receiving: With Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about making taking and receiving consciously. Cathy: Today, we're talking about taking and receiving. I'm here with Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Betty, why is it important for people to understand the difference between giving and receiving? Betty: That's a great question, and that's one that's really very often confusing [...]

By | 2016-01-19T13:15:33+00:00 February 20, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Intimacy and Connection: Allowing, with Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about Allowing. Cathy: Hi, everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. You're with Betty Martin from www.BettyMartin.org. We're going to be talking about 'allowing' now. Betty, why is that important? Why do we need to talk about this? Betty: Because it is so fun. That's why. Cathy: (Laughing). I love talking about fun things. [...]

By | 2016-04-14T11:34:43+00:00 February 17, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Playing with Touch and Intimacy: with Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about playing with touch and intimacy. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from www.TheIntimacyDojo.com here with Betty Martin from www.BettyMartin.org. She's going to share the three-minute game with us. Hey, Betty. Betty: Hey! (Laugh). My favorite topic. Cathy: Is it? Betty: Yes. Pretty much. I'm writing a book on it. We've been talking with you [...]

By | 2016-01-07T12:36:22+00:00 February 14, 2016|Dating, Flirting|

Taking the Confusion Out of Giving Intimacy: With Betty Martin

Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Here with Betty Martin fromhttp://www.BettyMartin.org. We're talking about giving. Now, have you ever been confused about giving and felt a little awkward about it? Betty is going to show us some ways to make it more clear and easy. Thanks, Betty. Betty: Thank you. First I want to define giving, because it can be thought of in a lot of ways. In our [...]

By | 2016-01-08T06:07:12+00:00 February 11, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|