Intimacy

I Want To Shoot Videos But I’m Running Into Resistance…

How do you face your fears and do it anyway in front of a video camera? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: All right, so we were talking to people that want to shoot videos because they were inspired at Sex Geek Summer Camp and want to get their message out. Reid Mihalko from Sex Geek Summer Camp and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli [...]

By |2016-01-08T09:35:08+00:00December 8, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|
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How Do You Deal With Someone Who Wants Different Things Out Of A Sexual Relationship?

What if one of you wants to have casual sex and the other wants a committed relationship? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy:  We have a video on playing games around sex and releasing old paradigms in our relationships, where a woman's not supposed to initiate sex, not supposed to have sex with someone for so many dates or whatever. There's a lot [...]

By |2016-09-22T15:11:33+00:00November 12, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Body Confidence at Every Size

Confidence and Body Image can effect how we walk through the world, who we connect with, and who we let love us.. Kate McCombs from http://www.SexGeekdom.com, Ashley Manta from http://www.AshleyManta.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com share tips and their experiences. Cathy: Body confidence, body image, it affects everyone, no matter had big you are or how small you are, or what's going on for you. This is Kate from http://www.SexGeekdom.com [...]

By |2016-09-22T15:07:34+00:00November 6, 2016|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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What If You Discover Your Sexual Identity Is Very Different Than You Thought?

If your sexual identity changes, it can effect your relationship. How can you deal with it? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: So what do you do when you discover your sexuality or your sexual expression with someone isn't what you thought it was, after you thought you had it all figured out? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: I'm Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com. [...]

By |2016-09-22T15:06:39+00:00November 3, 2016|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|
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How Can You Make Changing Your Sexual Identity Easier?

Discovering you like something different than you thought in bed can be exciting, but when it effects your identity, it can be really challenging. How can you support yourself through the process? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: How do you support yourself when you're transforming your sexuality?  Reid: Into what?  Cathy: Into something new, whether you're leaving kink or entering kink or [...]

By |2016-09-22T15:05:28+00:00October 31, 2016|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Collaboration Tips and Pointers

Collaboration can let us get more done, quicker, and add more value. But how do you find the people you want to collaborate with? Kate McCombs from http://www.SexGeekdom.com, Ashley Manta from http://www.AshleyManta.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com share tips and their experiences. Cathy: We're talking about collaboration and how to identify people that would be really fun to work with, play with, create with. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com  Kate: [...]

By |2016-09-22T15:04:35+00:00October 28, 2016|Collaborators, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Jealousy in Polyamorous Relationships: Examples and Stories

Wanting to handle jealousy better? What are examples of jealousy in poly relationships? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked about jealousy in a polyamorous relationship and was asking if we had some stories we could share that would help bring it down to a real level, like a more practical experiential level.  Reid: And Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com has a [...]

By |2016-09-22T14:57:07+00:00October 10, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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How Can Understanding Jealousy Give You More Confidence?

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.ThrivingNow.com (and founder of http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com) discuss how understanding jealousy can give you more confidence. Cathy: Good evening, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://ThrivingNow.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. We're going to be talking about jealousy today. Reid: The green-eyed beast. Cathy: We all have jealousy and our society does not teach us how to deal with it well, most of [...]

By |2016-09-19T14:33:29+00:00October 4, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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When Is Disappointment Useful?

Disappointment is a feeling most of us avoid... But what if it can be a useful and insightful signal to pay attention to? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: So Reid, you've shared with me that you think that, are you going to pick on me now? That people can most determine when they have expectations because they experience disappointment. Explain.  Reid: Yeah, [...]

By |2016-09-19T14:29:46+00:00September 28, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|
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Dealing With Expectations, Agreements, And Disappointment

How do you gracefully (or even awkwardly) handle unmet expectations, agreements and disappointment? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Video number two on expectations.  Cathy: Dealing with disappointment, because they go often hand in hand.  Reid: Yes, I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Go, Cathy, go.  Cathy: We just did a video on how disappointment can be a [...]

By |2016-09-22T14:46:25+00:00September 25, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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