Intimacy

Tips for Creating Safety Around Touch.

Fear of touch can create a conflict- you long for connection and you freeze up at the thought. People need touch to really thrive. Avoid skin hunger and learn how to start feeling safer receiving concentual touch and getting the warmth and connection you long for. Reid Mihalko from http://www.reidaboutsex.com/ and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.theintimacydojo.com/ share tips and approaches to allow you to feel safer giving and receiving touch. Cathy: [...]

By | 2016-01-06T12:10:24+00:00 November 8, 2012|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Trauma|

Commitment: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com discuss commitment and the value it may or may not add in relationships. Cathy: Commitment can be useful at times, but it can also get in the way. Reid, you're looking at me -- you're the one that told me that. Reid: You're the one that wanted to talk about commitment. Cathy: You're not very committed to talking about it. Reid: [...]

By | 2016-01-05T10:21:10+00:00 August 28, 2012|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Energetic Sex: Mindfulness and Mental Presence To Heat Things Up

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com discuss energetic sex, and how mindfulness can heat things up in the bedroom! Cathy: Hi everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com and this is Video 4. We don't know how many there are going to be. Cathy: It's a surprise. Reid: Energetic sex, we just keep coming. It's nuts. You were talking about [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:10:20+00:00 August 19, 2012|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Energetic Sex: Tuning Into Energy and Finding Your Frequency

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com talk about tuning into your "frequency" so you can connect more deeply. Reid: Hello, everyone this is a wine glass, or a water glass, half empty or half full. I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. And this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Thanks Reid. Reid: You're welcome. Cathy: Tell us about the wine glass. We want to know.  Reid: If you [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:11:03+00:00 August 13, 2012|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Energetic Sex: What Is Pragmatic Tantra?

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com discuss energetic sex, and how being aware of this can make connection more electric! Cathy: Hey everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid, can you tell us a little bit about energetic sex? You give a great workshop on it. Reid: Yes. Thank you for saying it was great. Energetic sex is something [...]

By | 2016-04-14T11:46:42+00:00 August 10, 2012|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Connection Party…And You’re Invited!

Romance Orientation: Do's and Don'ts Connection Party, September 15th Small changes can make delightful and powerful changes to your relationships, romantic or otherwise. Join us for proven and practical ways to deepen your connection or initiate connection and bring new warmth to your life! Includes mind/body and tantra techniques as well as practical steps you can take with your loved ones right now. Are you tired of feeling like the [...]

By | 2012-08-31T05:54:59+00:00 July 29, 2012|Relationship Skills|

UnHooking II- Delaying Emotional Attachment

Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com discusses delaying attachment and giving yourself time to got to know your partner (before renting the UHaul on the second date). Reid: So this is the Unhooking II, or what we will say Delaying Attachment. Cathy: It's good if you can delay that. I've seen a lot of people-- Reid: [whispering] this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com in case you [...]

By | 2016-01-06T12:18:40+00:00 July 24, 2012|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Jealousy- Feeling Special, Example

Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com talk about an example of balancing feeling special when there's more than two people involved. Cathy: Hey everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com, and this is Feeling Special Video Two. Reid: Video two. Cathy just shared with me that we had ... do that thing. Cathy: So Reid and my best friend Rick [...]

By | 2016-01-04T06:12:56+00:00 July 19, 2012|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|

Jealousy- Needing To Feel Special With Others

Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com how to balance feeling special in a group. Cathy: Hi everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimancyDojo.com, and we're here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Hi Reid. Reid: Hi. Cathy: I have a question for you. People like to feel special and you have a great product on jealousy. If there's just two people it's pretty easy in general [...]

By | 2016-01-04T06:10:41+00:00 July 16, 2012|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|

Difficult Conversations Video

Join Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex as he discusses Difficult Conversations with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com . You can find the Difficult Conversations article here: http://reidaboutsex.com/difficult-conversation-formula/ (not safe for all work places, with lots of other juicy content) or http://theintimacydojo.com/difficult-conversations/ (safe for work, with other articles about intimacy). Cathy: Hi everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com and we're here with reidabout -- I did it again. We are here with [...]

By | 2016-04-12T23:49:38+00:00 July 7, 2012|Uncategorized|