Intimacy

If You Start Oral Sex… Do You Have To Finish?

Do you really have to finish doing blow job until they come? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "If you start a blow job or cunnilingus, don't you have to finish?" Like, when we're talking about how you could say you we're done with stuff. They're like, "Don't you have to finish, wait, go until they cum? This is Reid [...]

By | 2017-05-23T16:47:42+00:00 May 23, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Partner Not Wanting To Sleep With You: Part IV

What do you do if you realize that their desire is already gone? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: You've done your thing, and your partner is still not wanting to sleep with you, not wanting to connect that way. What do you do? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. What would you do? Cathy: I've worked with a lot [...]

By | 2017-05-02T23:14:45+00:00 May 20, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|

Your Partner Doesn’t Want To Sleep With You… What Do You Do?

What do you do if your partner isn't interested in having sex with you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: You got the memo, too. Purple shirt day. Cathy: What do you do when your partner doesn't want to sleep with you? Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  It can be a really challenging thing, and you just did a great call [...]

By | 2017-05-02T21:48:15+00:00 May 11, 2017|Dating, Relationship Skills|

Passive Aggressive Friends And What You Can Do About Them…

What should you do if your friend won't go directly to you to talk about issues and won't let you know what he wants and instead, he gets passive aggressive? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What if you have a friend that you really care about who sometimes gets a little passive aggressive. Reid: Whatever.. Cathy: And not so suddenly pulls you down. Reid: Way to go. [...]

By | 2017-05-02T18:01:01+00:00 May 8, 2017|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|

End Up Falling In Love Every Time You’re Sexual?

What do you do if you're having a hard time not falling in love when you have sex? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you do if you've been struggling with being sexual? You're a really sexual person, but every time you're sexual you kind of fall in love, and it doesn't always end well. When you have that conflict going on, what can you do? [...]

By | 2017-05-02T21:43:34+00:00 May 5, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

3 Strikes Rule And Lying/Changing Your Mind

What are the 3 Strikes Rule and how are they applied to lying? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.     Reid: Cathy promised me that was the last video but now we have to shoot another one. Cathy: Actually I- Reid: You lied to me! Cathy: No, you changed your mind. Reid: Okay, the first video if you haven't seen it was about lying and there [...]

By | 2017-05-03T20:21:59+00:00 May 2, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|

What Is Gender Queer?

And what about pronouns? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com. Cathy: What is genderqueer? I'm Catherine Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. I'm really honored to be joined today by Andi Cortland.  Andi: From http://www.LevelUpSex.com. Today, we're talking about genderqueer. For me, that means that I don't feel like a man. I don't feel like a woman. I just feel like a human. It would be pretty awesome if people [...]

By | 2016-11-07T16:07:53+00:00 April 29, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Do You End Up Being Friends With People You’re Interested In Romantically? Here’s Help!

Cathy: Some people end up being friends with everyone they're interested with romantically. It doesn't ever quite transition to romantic. They end up being buddies. That can be really frustrating. Reid: The friend zone. Cathy: Yes. It can be very frustrating.  What would you do, Reid Mihalko, from http://wwwReidAboutSex.com? Reid: I don't know, Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. What would I do? What a weird segue. Being stuck in the friend zone. [...]

By | 2016-09-23T15:27:19+00:00 April 23, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Can I Be A Sex Educator Even If I’m Not Having A Lot Of Sex Right Now?

Does a sex educator have to be having great sex a lot to be in integrity? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: I can't take him anywhere. Reid: That's why we sit right here, in front of this camera. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said they're a sex educator. Good job. They're also going through a lot of transition about their sexuality right [...]

By | 2016-09-23T15:26:10+00:00 April 20, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Women Can Talk About STIs and Testing

How can women talk about STIs and getting Tested? Kate McCombs from http://www.SexGeekdom.com, Ashley Manta from http://www.AshleyManta.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com share tips and their experiences. Cathy: Hey, everyone. We're talking about STDs and getting tested. We know that as women, there's a lot of stigma around that. We'd like to discuss our views and share different ways to make it more comfortable. Would you like to introduce us? [...]

By | 2016-09-23T15:21:10+00:00 April 17, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|