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How Can I Share My STI / STD Test Results With My Partner?

How to make it seem normal to talk about STI testing which isn't in our society? Talking about things with your partner before you do them, can soften the blow. You don't want it to come as a surprise. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to tell your partner about your STI/STD results. Cathy: One of our listeners wrote in and said she [...]

By |2016-01-05T06:12:12+00:00May 10, 2015|Relationship Skills|
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How Can You Have Good Boundaries When You’re Being Goofy?

People like being playful and goofy, but they are not necessarily being as careful about boundaries. State your boundaries so that you can be even more playful. It's not the other way around. With boundaries you can make people feel safer, and they will play back with you. Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com have to say about how you can have good boundaries when you're [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:33:31+00:00May 7, 2015|Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Feeling Vulnerable Saying “I Love You”?

Do you ever wonder why is it so hard to say "I love you" and how can you get better at it? And, why do people make a war out of who says it first? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share how to say "I love you" easier. Cathy: We had a question from someone who watched our video on how to know [...]

By |2016-01-05T06:11:52+00:00April 28, 2015|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Shame|
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Is My Partner A Good Fit For Me?

How do you know if someone is a good fit for you or not? Is it the circumstances you're in right now or are they just not a good fit? The main thing is when you're thinking about is this the tough time - has the relationship always been a tough time or are you just noticing that it's tougher than usual? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:43:55+00:00April 25, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills|
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How Can We Rebuild Trust In Our Relationship?

How do you rebuild trust in your relationship? What can you do, if you have a lot of struggle over time and you're just not feeling really easy and trusting with each other. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and find out how to bring back trust in your relationship. Cathy: One of our listeners wrote in and said, "How do I rebuild trust in my relationship? We've [...]

By |2016-01-05T06:12:04+00:00April 16, 2015|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|
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Conflicts Around Money

What to do, if one person wants to save and budget and the other person, someone who is a lot more free thinking about money, doesn't want to budget or plan? That can cause a lot of conflict in a relationship, because one is a saver, and other is a spender. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways how to solve conflicts around [...]

By |2016-04-13T09:12:58+00:00April 13, 2015|Relationship Skills|
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What Do I Do When I Don’t Deserve Happiness and Love?

It can be really challenging when you don't feel like you deserve happiness. It's hard to let in the things that would actually allow you feel better about yourself. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share advice on what you can do when you don't feel like you deserve to be happy. Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked what can I do when [...]

By |2016-01-05T10:03:47+00:00April 4, 2015|Relationship Skills|
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I’m Always The Cool Girl Friend… Never the Girlfriend, How Do I Get Out There?

Are you always the cool girl friend and never the cool girlfriend? Do you hate the idea of being shut down? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about how you can deal with that fear of being shut down. Cathy: We shot a video a while ago about being stuck in the friend zone. Reid: It's a Kenny Loggins song, right? Cathy: It's [...]

By |2016-01-05T10:06:01+00:00March 29, 2015|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Shame|
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If You Want To Be More Powerful …How Can You Still Leave Space For Other People?

There's an assumption that, if you're powerful, then somehow you're not going to notice people. We tend to think that power is automatically reckless or the worry there is that it's going to be reckless. If you want to be a more powerful person, how can you do it without trampling other people, still being aware of other people and giving space for other people to have their needs and wants too? Join [...]

By |2016-01-06T09:37:28+00:00March 23, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills|
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In The Mood For Connection… How Can You Invite Your Partner?

If you're in the mood to be really intimate, connected with your partner, not necessarily sexual, but just connected, present, and your partner's not in the mood, how can you start a conversation maybe to invite them to step into it with you? Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com have to say about this. Cathy: If you're in the mood to be really intimate, connected [...]

By |2016-01-06T09:39:51+00:00March 20, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills|
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