Play

Building Community to Make Life More Fun: Sex Geeks Community

It can be hard to find like minded people to share and co-create with. Building community can make life lots more fun. Kate McCombs from http://www.SexGeekdom.com, Ashley Manta from http://www.AshleyManta.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com share tips and their experiences. Cathy: So if you watched our last video, we're talking about collaboration and how much fun it is to work with other people. If you feel kind of isolated and [...]

By | 2016-09-23T14:49:29+00:00 March 2, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What If You And Your Partner Have Very Different Needs Around Play Parties?

What if you're shyer and don't want to jump in the middle of the pile? Or what if you do what to jump in the middle of the pile? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: What if you and your partner have very different needs about play parties, what you want to express, what you want to experience? It can be a challenge. What [...]

By | 2016-09-23T14:41:04+00:00 February 3, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Can Stimulating The G-Spot Bruise The Urethra?

The G-spot can be really fun to play with... But can you hurt someone if you do it too hard? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: One of our viewers in Germany wrote in and said "Hey there guys."  Reid: Germany?  Cathy: Yes.  Reid: Hello Germany.  Cathy: It's great to see you. "Hey there guys. I hope it's okay to ask you this. [...]

By | 2016-09-22T16:47:42+00:00 December 21, 2016|Body Image, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

If You Don’t Want To Have Sex With Your Partner… Should You?

Do you tell your partner if you're not in the mood to have sex?     Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1GTMgV5HqBU Reid: Welcome back. Or if this is the first video that you are watching. Welcome for the first time. Cathy: We are talking about how you can talk to your partner about not wanting to have sex, and do it in [...]

By | 2016-08-08T19:36:48+00:00 August 11, 2016|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Touch|

How Do I Know If My Fantasies Are Okay… And How Do I Develop My Fantasies?

Ever wonder, if your fantasies are okay, and if you don't have really good fantasies, how could you develop your skill at creating fantasies? How do you know which fantasies are okay and which ones aren't? Listen to relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they are talking about fantasies. Cathy: Are my fantasies okay, and if I don't have really good fantasies, how could I develop [...]

By | 2016-01-05T07:51:56+00:00 July 17, 2015|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can You Have Good Boundaries When You’re Being Goofy?

People like being playful and goofy, but they are not necessarily being as careful about boundaries. State your boundaries so that you can be even more playful. It's not the other way around. With boundaries you can make people feel safer, and they will play back with you. Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com have to say about how you can have good boundaries when you're [...]

By | 2016-01-05T09:33:31+00:00 May 7, 2015|Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

I Like To Flirt…But I Don’t Want Them To Take It As Permission To Jump!

When you flirt does the other person crank up the heat to an 11 as a consequence? Problem sometimes occurs when you tell the other person that you're flirting with, that you're a shy, slow, tentative person, but it seems to come across: "I hereby encourage you to channel Pepe Le Pew and ignore all boundaries, starting now." What can you do? Relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com are going to share [...]

By | 2016-01-04T12:51:31+00:00 April 1, 2015|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

I’m Poly And Kinky, My Partner Isn’t, What Do I Do?

You're polyamorous, but your partner is not, and he doesn't have the same sex drive as you do. Basicaly you're dating people that are not your species? Can Poly/Mono relationship work or is it time to pull the plug? Here relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com will give advice on what to do in this kind of situation. Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, "I'm polyamorous, [...]

By | 2015-12-23T12:13:28+00:00 March 26, 2015|Sex Geeks|

My Partner Is Being Too Gentle In Bed…

Would you like your partner to be a little rougher, aggressive, more physical during  sex? Is your partner afraid of hurting you, and treating you like you're glass? Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com have to say about how to communicate with your partner, so he understands that it would be pleasurable for you, and he's not going to hurt you. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "I'd like my boyfriend [...]

By | 2016-01-06T08:19:23+00:00 March 14, 2015|Sex Geeks, Touch|

When To Get In The Mood and When To Say No

What do you do when you're not in the mood for sex and your partner is? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to get yourself in the mood and when to say no. Cathy: What do you do when you're not in the mood and your partner is? Reid: In the mood for what? Cathy: Sex. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:50:15+00:00 February 18, 2015|Energy, Sex Geeks|