Reid Mihalko

How To Deal with People Who Say That There’s Something Wrong about You Because You’re Bigger?

If you're fat or bigger, what do you do if someone says there's something wrong with you for being larger? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in in response to a video that Ashley Man did together about being bigger and being sexual. And they said, your fatties need to recognize that you're mentally ill. You over eat because there's something about you [...]

By | 2017-05-12T15:36:24+00:00 January 24, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

How Do You Deal With Repeated Minor Putdowns?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LOAbTeO5kr8 Cathy: At camp, Sex Geek Summer Camp which Reid respond amazing event there were lot of talks about people were talking about micro aggressions were and how to make people feel valued and welcomed. I don’t meddle a lot or talked to that really well. And one question we have is what is the difference about micro aggression and genuine expression for instance if one person always says you [...]

Where Is The Boundary Between Other People’s Need To Feel Special, and My Consent

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1nplixJBKeQ Cathy: So, where is the boundary between other people’s need to feel special and my consent? This is Reid Mihalko from www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Cathy Vartuli from www.TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: You do remember who I am? Reid: Yes I do but this is a good question, read the question again. Cathy: Some people have a very strong need to feel special and where is the boundary between their need to feel [...]

How Do You Extricate Yourself When You’re Dating Someone Who Isn’t Your Species?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3YUOMyOMVuE Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, we talked how not to fall in love but how we extricate yourself when you realize you’re not with your species really bad fit but those cocaine addiction chemicals is still happily trapping through the system. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: It’s a great question! Reid: Wooh!  You know you have a drug problem [...]

Bisexuality… What About It?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FA7W2SQsvuA Cathy: Someone wrote in and said could you talk more about bisexuality, there’s not a lot out there that I like at it. Reid: Bisexuality? I can’t see it! It’s invisible. This is Cathy Vartuli from https://TheIntimacyDojo.com/. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from https://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: It’s a little joke for bisexuals out there about bisexual invisibility. Cathy: A lot of society just don’t see them as they don’t think [...]

Betrayal… And How Can Someone Bounce Back?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e0-CgrlvnXs Cathy: We have new comment. Hey peeps, running for a dear friend who had a classic narcissistic partner with who have been lying to her for years. A lot something major, it’s a long story. I’m looking for advice about psychological response to experiencing betrayal and the loss of abusive addictive relationship. How can someone flame of bad relationships of their self-talks than can find strength to pick up [...]

I Miss Giving My HSV Positive Partner Oral… Is There Anything I Can Do?

If you have Herpes, do you need to stop having oral sex with your partner? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Hi guys! My wife has HSV 2 but I don’t I don’t have one or two we’ve been 30 years. I kinda wish I could get infected because I miss giving her oral sex please keep up the good work. This is Reid Mihalko [...]

By | 2017-05-10T20:19:28+00:00 December 19, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

Is It Okay To Masturbate To Someone?

Can you fantasize about someone when you masturbate? What is the ethics around this? With Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from htto://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So one of our amazing viewers wrote and said, it is okay if I fantasize, they’re talking to you, fantasize about you when I masturbate? Reid: I didn’t see this comment. Cathy: I haven’t share it with you yet. Reid: Oh my goodness. Cathy: You [...]

By | 2017-05-10T17:17:26+00:00 December 13, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

What Do You Do When The Chair Breaks Under You?

There is a fear, especially for bigger folks, that chairs and benches won't support them. What do you do when that happens? Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com shares and experience. Cathy: So, I'm at Sex Geek Summer Camp. I'm hanging out and it's the day after we're chilling. I sat down at the picnic bench and I wanted to lay down because Reid was taking a dunk. Reid: A dunk, not [...]

By | 2017-05-10T17:05:57+00:00 December 10, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

How Do I Keep Casual Sex, Casual?

If you have casual sex, how do you keep the connection... casual? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GQPhQvqbW_E Cathy: So we just answered the question about how to have casual sex and leave your partner feeling great but someone else wrote in said I’ve noticed that whenever I have sex with people even if we have agreed on casual sex after I first time I have casual sex with them they start calling me like [...]

By | 2017-05-09T13:30:33+00:00 October 23, 2017|Collaborators, Dating, Delivery, Energy, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|