Reid Mihalko

Dealing with Insecurity and Worry: Moving Into The Fear

Do you find yourself getting insecure? Worrying if you're being obnoxious or annoying? Turn your brain on it's head... with this tip from Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from Cathy: Are you ever afraid that you're being annoying or does your insecurity come up and bite you in the butt? It can get really in your head. The more you think about it, the more you pull back [...]

By | 2016-01-11T13:13:44+00:00 November 8, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills|

How Do I Encourage My Partner To Get Support?

Relationships are a great place to source support, but having support from others is critical, especially when big stresses come into play. How do you help your partner reach out without feeling judged? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Reid: A writer, a commenter, wrote in, don't do that.  I'm Reid Mihalko from Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from Reid: We had somebody who wrote [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:11:11+00:00 November 6, 2015|Relationship Skills|

How Do You Transition Your Relationship?

Sometimes you don't "end" a relationship as much as "transition" it. How do you do that well? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: In poly relationships, you don't so much break up always as transition. Reid: Those relationships never end, do they? Cathy: Some of them don't. Reid: They're like lobster traps.  You just drag them along on your boats, slowing you down. Cathy: If [...]

By | 2016-04-13T11:55:52+00:00 November 3, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Having The Courage To Be Vulnerable (Appreciation)

Appreciating your courage can make a big difference. How do you appreciate your vulnerability? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Reid: This is going to be a fun video for the person who wrote in this comment. We're going to start up by saying that you rock. Who are you? Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from Reid: I am Reid Mihalko from I'm going to [...]

By | 2016-04-13T10:39:41+00:00 October 31, 2015|Relationship Skills|

If I Kiss A Woman Does That Make Me A Lesbian?

If you open your relationship up to a woman, does that make you a lesbian? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: Someone wrote in and shared that a perspective partner of theirs was terrified that she might be compelled to become a lesbian or bisexual if we even occasionally opened our relationship up to women. Could we talk a little bit about how to define [...]

By | 2015-12-23T15:41:49+00:00 October 28, 2015|Dating|

How Can You Tell If You Should Pursue A Relationship Or Not?

If you think you like someone, keep running into them... but aren't sure if you want to pursue a relationship, what do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Reid: This just in, somebody who is awesome, thank you all of you for leaving comments. What do you do when you are not sure about how you feel about somebody and you keep going back [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:15:27+00:00 October 25, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Feeling Guilty Even Though You’ve Opened Your Relationship?

What do you do if you're not cheating, but you still feel guilty? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Reid: Hello ladies and gentlemen, I am a giants and this is Cathy Vartuli, the little lady that sits on my shoulder. Come on up Cathy, what are we talking about today? I’m Reid Mihalko from Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from Reid: We’re talking about [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:22:15+00:00 October 22, 2015|Relationship Skills|

I’m Poly… I can’t Tell If My Crush Is… What Do I Do?

How do you know if its ok to flirt with someone if you're poly and you don't know if they are? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Reid: This just in. A writer or commenter writes in. It's very detailed and I'll just summarize it but I just want to thank all of you who leave comments and leave questions or email us questions and comments [...]

By | 2016-04-13T05:34:44+00:00 October 19, 2015|Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Heart Centered Business Advice: Building Engagement Part III

Tip #3, how can you build engagement with your business and personal life. With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Reid: 3 is the magic number. This is Business Advice video 3. Cathy: Because we're really meta and geeky, this also applies to relationships. I found that this really helps me with relationships of all kinds. I'm so sorry, guys. I can't get him to leave. He [...]

By | 2016-01-04T06:35:40+00:00 October 16, 2015|Uncategorized|

Heart Centered Business Advice: Building Engagement Part II

Tip #2: How to build connection and engagements...With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Reid: Part two of a three part video series. Go. Cathy: How do you engage with your list and make your business ... The people that interact with your business feel loved and excited about what you're offering. Now we're at tip number 2. Reid: This is a business advice video, because we [...]

By | 2016-01-04T06:34:51+00:00 October 13, 2015|Uncategorized|