Reid Mihalko

Passionate About Sharing Sex Ed and Sex Positivity? Where Do You Start?

Where do you begin when you are planning to start your own sex positive business? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy:  If you’re starting out in business you could see that there’s so many things to do and especially if you’re only passion about getting sex ed and sex positive information out there. Where do you start? Reid: Oh, my goodness! This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.theintimacydojo.com/ [...]

By | 2017-05-04T15:15:01+00:00 July 13, 2017|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How To Run A Sex Geek Work Weekend

How do you facilitate work weekends with your sex educator peers? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So someone wrote in and said, I heard about these works weekends, I’ve been running some and another people get to or people get together and crank out work. It's lot more fun sometimes and they’re wanting to know how to facilitate it where people are not chatting too [...]

By | 2017-05-03T20:11:13+00:00 July 10, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can You Handle It If You Get Banned From A Community?

You don't know what you did and you're being banned from the community. How do you handle it? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: What happens if you get banned from a community? How should you handle that? Cathy: This Reid Mihalko from http://www.reidaboutsex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.theintimacydojo.com/. Cathy: That would really be hard and it’s hard to balance that. Balance running events in the [...]

By | 2017-05-03T19:54:53+00:00 July 7, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Cyber Flirting Basics… What To Do

How do people cyber flirt? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cyber flirting. How do you do it? I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Well this is fun for me because Cathy usually picks all the questions because Cathy is better than this than I am and now I have a topic. We have different dating styles… Cathy: Well because you're an [...]

By | 2017-05-03T03:54:12+00:00 July 1, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Know When Its Safe To Kiss Someone If You Have Herpes?

Is it safe to kiss someone if you have Herpes? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “If you have HSV-1 or Herpes 1, how do you know when to kiss again?” That’s really a pointy question. If you found out and diagnosed with something, how do you know when you’re safe? How do you know when you can reach out and reconnect [...]

By | 2017-05-03T03:31:05+00:00 June 28, 2017|Flirting, Relationship Skills, Shame|

Facing Judgement As A Sex Educator and/or Sex Worker?

Shamed for being a sex educator and/or sex worker? What can you do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Are you going to do the business thing? Reid: Yah I’m going to do the business thing cause when I’m wearing the Sex Geek Summer Camp t-shirt that means were talking about business for sex educators and things like that. Cathy: What’s like wearing purple orchid [...]

By | 2017-05-03T03:12:58+00:00 June 25, 2017|Flirting, Sex Geeks, Shame|

How Can I Be More Present During Sex?

How can you enhance pleasure and connection during sex? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Have you meet more presents during sex? Reid: I’m sorry, what? Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: And we we’re just talking about of how to notice your partner energy more. And one of the basic things you need to do for that [...]

By | 2017-05-03T02:50:57+00:00 June 22, 2017|Energy, Flirting, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Tell Someone That You’re Just Not That Into Them?

What would you do when you realize you just want to be friends? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote and said, “I recently parted with a female over the New Year’s holidays but now she’s obviously more into me that I am into her. She’s dropping the L word after only a week.” Reid: Latte! I’m Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy [...]

By | 2017-05-03T02:37:28+00:00 June 19, 2017|Dating, Relationship Skills|

How Do I Know If My Rules Are Reasonable In My Poly Relationship?

What is "reasonable" to ask for in a relationship? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Hi Reid and Cathy. I really need some advice and someone to tell me if the rule I have in my poly relationship is reasonable or not. My primary partner has started dating someone else for the first time in 6 years. I support her 100%. I have [...]

By | 2017-05-03T02:15:08+00:00 June 16, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

If You Had To Exit A Business Agreement, How Would You Do It?

How do you create exit strategies for business? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Do you have exit strategies for your business? Reid: How do you escape!? Cathy: Is that what you're trying to do? Reid: Escape! Cathy: It kind of looks like you might be having- Reid: I'm like in a straitjacket. My business is a straitjacket! How do I escape!? Cathy: This is Reid [...]

By | 2017-05-03T02:01:49+00:00 June 13, 2017|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|