Reid Mihalko

When Does Taking Care Of Yourself Become Selfish or Hedonism?

Hedonism has gotten a bad slant, like people use the word to mean something negative. But looking for pleasure or happiness is not necessarily a bad thing. You need to be selfish in life - you actually need to take care of yourself first. Hear relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com talk about when does taking care of yourself drop into selfishness or hedonism. Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked, [...]

By | 2015-12-23T12:33:20+00:00 February 24, 2015|Body Image, Energy, Relationship Skills|

Cuddle Party 10th Anniversary

10 years ago, Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com was Reid Mihalko from http://CuddleParty.com and it was Cuddle Party's 10th Anniversary on February 28th 2014. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share memories. Reid: Hi, I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: 10 years ago, I was Reid Mihalko from http://CuddleParty.com and it was Cuddle Party's 10th Anniversary on February [...]

By | 2015-12-23T10:45:34+00:00 February 21, 2015|Event|

When To Get In The Mood and When To Say No

What do you do when you're not in the mood for sex and your partner is? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to get yourself in the mood and when to say no. Cathy: What do you do when you're not in the mood and your partner is? Reid: In the mood for what? Cathy: Sex. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:50:15+00:00 February 18, 2015|Energy, Sex Geeks|

Trouble Orgasming

Cathy: A lot of women have trouble orgasming. Reid: What? That explains everything. Cathy: They may not be able to orgasm with a partner or by themselves or they may just be, it may take them a long time or it might be a struggle for them. Reid: I just thought it was me. Cathy: It is you sweetie. Reid: It's me, so me, if anyone can orgasm around me is a miracle. I'm Reid [...]

By | 2016-01-06T08:18:31+00:00 August 20, 2014|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Stuck In The Friend Zone

Cathy: Some people end up being friends with everyone they're interested with romantically. It doesn't ever quite transition to romantic. They end up being buddies. That can be really frustrating. Reid: The friend zone. Cathy: Yes. It can be very frustrating.  What would you do, Reid Mihalko, from http://wwwReidAboutSex.com? Reid: I don't know, Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. What would I do? What a weird segue. Being stuck in the friend zone. [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:51:24+00:00 August 18, 2014|Dating, Flirting|

Reframing Fighting

Reid: Hi, I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Yeah, and today we're going to talk about reframing fighting. Cathy: It's really powerful because in our society, we do have a tendency ... Reid: Whatever. Cathy: To have discussions that are ... one of us has to win and I'm going to beat him up until he gives in or his going to give me the cold [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:52:21+00:00 August 16, 2014|Dating, Relationship Skills|

Doing Things in Bed That You Don’t Want to Do

Cathy: We had someone write in to us and say that their partner is wanting them to try things in bed that they don't really know they want to try. They're not really sure and ... Reid: Like eating cookies in bed? Cathy: Yeah. I'm sure that was it. Reid: That's crummy. Cathy: Oh my god. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: I am Cathy Vartuli from  http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com  and I am so [...]

By | 2016-01-19T13:56:34+00:00 August 16, 2014|Dating, Relationship Skills|

How Do I Know When She’s Come

Cathy: How do you know when she has an orgasm, so you know when to stop? Someone wrote in asking about that and I love that the person wants to know more. There is a lot of pressure I think in our society to know when the person had an orgasm or not. Reid: Our society is very orgasm-centric. Cathy: You supposed to do the orgasm then you're done. Reid: Yeah, because now we [...]

By | 2016-01-06T08:24:12+00:00 August 9, 2014|Dating, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Digging Deeping In Your Relationship

Cathy: Have you found that your relationship might be a little stagnant? Or that you're not growing as fast as you would like? Reid: What? I thought everything was fine. What are you telling me? Cathy: Actually, digging into some of the deeper stuff in your relationship, having the conversations that you don't normally have, can help you both grow. It can also deepen your relationship. Reid: That sounds scary. Cathy: It is, sometimes. [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:56:10+00:00 August 7, 2014|Dating, Relationship Skills|

Cheating

Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked, she said she's interested in a married man and she doesn't know what to do. Reid: Mmmhmmmm ... Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ... Reid: I'm going to assume that that man's not married to her. Cathy: No, he's not. Reid: Mmmhmmm ... Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: What would you suggest? Reid: Mmhmmm ... Well, well, well, you had to come [...]

By | 2016-01-05T10:16:35+00:00 August 7, 2014|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|