How To Deal with People Who Say That There’s Something Wrong about You Because You’re Bigger?

If you're fat or bigger, what do you do if someone says there's something wrong with you for being larger? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and Cathy: Someone wrote in in response to a video that Ashley Man did together about being bigger and being sexual. And they said, your fatties need to recognize that you're mentally ill. You over eat because there's something about you [...]

By | 2017-05-12T15:36:24+00:00 January 24, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

How Do You Deal With Repeated Minor Putdowns? Cathy: At camp, Sex Geek Summer Camp which Reid respond amazing event there were lot of talks about people were talking about micro aggressions were and how to make people feel valued and welcomed. I don’t meddle a lot or talked to that really well. And one question we have is what is the difference about micro aggression and genuine expression for instance if one person always says you [...]

Where Is The Boundary Between Other People’s Need To Feel Special, and My Consent Cathy: So, where is the boundary between other people’s need to feel special and my consent? This is Reid Mihalko from Reid: Cathy Vartuli from Cathy: You do remember who I am? Reid: Yes I do but this is a good question, read the question again. Cathy: Some people have a very strong need to feel special and where is the boundary between their need to feel [...]

How Do You Extricate Yourself When You’re Dating Someone Who Isn’t Your Species? Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, we talked how not to fall in love but how we extricate yourself when you realize you’re not with your species really bad fit but those cocaine addiction chemicals is still happily trapping through the system. This is Reid Mihalko from Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from Cathy: It’s a great question! Reid: Wooh!  You know you have a drug problem [...]

Bisexuality… What About It? Cathy: Someone wrote in and said could you talk more about bisexuality, there’s not a lot out there that I like at it. Reid: Bisexuality? I can’t see it! It’s invisible. This is Cathy Vartuli from Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from Reid: It’s a little joke for bisexuals out there about bisexual invisibility. Cathy: A lot of society just don’t see them as they don’t think [...]

Betrayal… And How Can Someone Bounce Back? Cathy: We have new comment. Hey peeps, running for a dear friend who had a classic narcissistic partner with who have been lying to her for years. A lot something major, it’s a long story. I’m looking for advice about psychological response to experiencing betrayal and the loss of abusive addictive relationship. How can someone flame of bad relationships of their self-talks than can find strength to pick up [...]

What Do I Do When My Eroticism Conflicts With My Politics? Cathy: Someone wrote in and said what do I do with my eroticism and my personal politics collide such as feminists who likes to be called girl by her lovers or black American who likes to be tied up and help captive for a little while. Am I broken? This is Reid Mihalko from Reid: Cathy Vartuli from Who wrote this in, you awesome person for writing [...]

By | 2017-05-12T12:41:35+00:00 December 28, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Delivery, Energy, Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

If I Come On Her Pussy, Will She Get Pregnant? Cathy: Another question from the viewer. If I pull out is it okay if I cum on the pussy and just stick it back in. This is Reid from Reid: Cathy Vartuli from Cathy: Oh, Reid Mihalko from Reid: Yeah, we did this on the last video. It’s okay. You all know that I’m Reid, you know that’s Cathy. Ei, we’re good. What’s not good is [...]

How Can I Make A Woman Cum As Fast As Possible? Cathy: Someone new to our channel wrote in and said, “How can I make a girl come really… Is orgasm is fast as possible the first time we meet? This is Reid Mihalko from Reid: Cathy Vartuli. Cathy ‘speedy’ Vartuli from Answer that question, Cathy. Cathy: Absolutely. Reid: It’s a race! Go! Cathy: The best way that I can think of is not to try. It’s about [...]

What If My Partner Doesn’t Want To Sleep Over After Sex? Cathy: We have a wonderful viewer who write in and said that she loved our video on when your partner doesn’t want to sleep with you meaning sexual sleep with you but she said you know I love sleeping after the date like after we have sex. I love when my partner wants to sleep over and I am dating someone right now, he doesn’t want to spend the [...]