Relationship

If You Opened Up Your Relationship, What If One Of You Is Much More Sexual?

Is there something wrong if one of you is much more sexual than the other in an open relationship? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: If you've opened up your relationship, is there something wrong if one of you isn't as sexual as the other? Are you sexually inadequate? I'm Catherine Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: I'm Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com.  Raj: I'm Raj. I'm [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:17:32+00:00 November 18, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Do You Have To Have Sex If You’re Married?

Can marriage be valid and healthy without sex? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: Do you have to have sex if you're a married couple? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.comcom.  Andi: I'm Andi Courtland, from http://www.LevelUpSex.com  Raj: I'm Raj, I'm just the ordinary guy married to Andi.  Cathy: Thanks for being here today, I really love you sharing and I love what you talk [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:13:50+00:00 November 15, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Deal With Someone Who Wants Different Things Out Of A Sexual Relationship?

What if one of you wants to have casual sex and the other wants a committed relationship? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy:  We have a video on playing games around sex and releasing old paradigms in our relationships, where a woman's not supposed to initiate sex, not supposed to have sex with someone for so many dates or whatever. There's a lot [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:11:33+00:00 November 12, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What If You Discover Your Sexual Identity Is Very Different Than You Thought?

If your sexual identity changes, it can effect your relationship. How can you deal with it? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: So what do you do when you discover your sexuality or your sexual expression with someone isn't what you thought it was, after you thought you had it all figured out? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: I'm Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com. [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:06:39+00:00 November 3, 2016|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

What If You Want To Change The Level of Connection in A Relationship?

Been Hanging out with someone and want to not spend the same amount of time and intimacy with them? What do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com. Andi: That's really interesting, but then what happens if say you have had a connection with someone in the past, but right now you're just totally overbooked? You have so many amazing things happening in your life that [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:02:51+00:00 October 22, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Balancing Corporate Job and Sex Positive Business? How Do You Do It?

It can be a challenge to balance time and money when you have a corporate job AND are trying to grow your sex-positive business. How do you do it? Learn how with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Hello, it's Reid Mihalko, creator of Sex Geek Summer Camp. I'm wearing the Sex Geek Summer Camp t-shirt which means Cathy Vartuli from The Intimacy Dojo [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:01:51+00:00 October 19, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can I Make My Meetup Group More Inclusive and Diverse?

How can I make my group more inviting to people with different backgrounds, incomes, ages, races, and perspectives? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone who runs a polyamory group wrote in and said, "I just started this group but it's mostly Caucasian people with money, how do I attract people..." Reid: That idea is again younger people. Cathy: Younger, yeah. How do I attract [...]

By | 2016-09-22T14:59:48+00:00 October 13, 2016|Collaborators, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Jealousy and the Law of Attraction

How does understanding jealousy can help you attract more of what you want in your life? Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.ThrivingNow.com (and founder of http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com) discuss how understanding jealousy can help you attract more of what you want in your life. Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://ThrivingNow.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. If you saw the first video, we were talking about how [...]

By | 2016-09-19T14:36:36+00:00 October 7, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can Understanding Jealousy Give You More Confidence?

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.ThrivingNow.com (and founder of http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com) discuss how understanding jealousy can give you more confidence. Cathy: Good evening, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://ThrivingNow.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. We're going to be talking about jealousy today. Reid: The green-eyed beast. Cathy: We all have jealousy and our society does not teach us how to deal with it well, most of [...]

By | 2016-09-19T14:33:29+00:00 October 4, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Giving Your Partner Feedback In Bed… How Do You Do That?

Want to see a role modeling of giving feedback in bed? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is awesome. We're going to get so meta. We're talking about how you can give your partners upgrades about certain things ...  Cathy: In bed.  Reid: In bed.  Cathy: Yeah.  Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com...  Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Reid: We're just going to do this [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:49:03+00:00 June 27, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|