Relationship

Is It Impractical To Ask Everyone In A Cuddle Or Play Pile For Consent?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Ahfk09maeE Cathy: Question: When discussing consent in a workshop someone asked, “How do you respond to someone claiming that it’s impractical to ask every participant for consent in a cuddle or fuck pile? Thanks in advance.” Reid: Yes, so… Cathy: Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: Oh, my god! I just wanna answer this! Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ Cathy: It’s a great question. Reid: Yeah, the impractical is an interesting situation [...]

How Should Ejaculate Come Out When I Come? Should It Spurt Or Drip?

Wondering how cum should come out during orgasm for a penis owner? Find out with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ungf18nyMGs Cathy: When you ejaculate, as, if with a penis owner, how was the sperm supposed to come out? Is this supposed to launch like a rocket or is this supposed to leak out? Reid: Excellent question, this is Cathy Vartuli from https://TheIntimacyDojo.com/. Cathy: And [...]

How Do I Keep Casual Sex, Casual?

If you have casual sex, how do you keep the connection... casual? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GQPhQvqbW_E Cathy: So we just answered the question about how to have casual sex and leave your partner feeling great but someone else wrote in said I’ve noticed that whenever I have sex with people even if we have agreed on casual sex after I first time I have casual sex with them they start calling me like [...]

By |2017-05-09T13:30:33+00:00October 23, 2017|Collaborators, Dating, Delivery, Energy, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Can I Have Casual Sex And Leave Them Feeling Great?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7p91IWa1t3w Cathy: Someone wrote in and said to Reid, I love your interview with Christopher Ryan. It was really good and he continued although it’s too short I definitely need help with the cabin casual sex and leaving a girl feeling great about our relationship. Can you give us some advice? This is Reid Mihalko from https://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from https://TheIntimacyDojo.com/ and we have a new microphone that we’re [...]

Is Lack of Desire Causing Problems in Your Relationship?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lfv8YS0XeMI Cathy: In response to your webinar about my partner doesn't want to sleep with me, we've had a lot of people writing in about this. It's a great question. This woman wrote in and said, "In this situation, I'm the one who doesn't desire sex. It's just not there no matter what we've tried." They think it's menopause and hormones, but they're having trouble in their relationship because of [...]

By |2017-05-08T17:30:58+00:00September 20, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch, Trauma|

On-Again-Off-Again Sex Drive? What Can You Do?

How do you deal with it when you and your partner have an on again - off again sexual connection? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ASa5NMSWYU Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "We have had this relationship with this woman on and off again, and the -" Reid: Is it "we have had" or "I have had"?  Cathy: This person wrote in, "I've been in [...]

By |2017-05-09T16:28:52+00:00September 17, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

What If Your Husband Is Just Not Interested In Sex?

How do you deal when your husband doesn't want to have sex with you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tZ7yxAv7n7c Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, "My husband and I have had frank discussions about our lack of sexual relations for the past several years. His final answer is, ‘I'm just not interested.’ That took me by surprise and I don't know [...]

By |2017-05-09T16:13:04+00:00September 11, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Touch|

What Is INCEL and Why Do People Use The Term?

What's the meaning of INCEL? Are there undateable people? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8EWmIBhf1Ck Cathy: Do you know what “Incel” means?  And how to use it? Reid: How do you spell it? Cathy:  I-N-C-E-L. Reid:  Google it! Google fuckin’ exist. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Before you Google things, If you’re some junior, what’s ‘Incel’? [...]

By |2017-05-09T16:08:10+00:00September 8, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

If Your STD/STI Test Is Negative… Are You “Clean” or “Clear”?

What correct term do you use when your STI test comes back negative? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xk_gL2w_6nE Reid: Hey Cathy, I just got tested and I'm clean. How about you? Cathy: Reid, I love that you got tested, and you're clean whether you showered or not, not whether you got tested negative or not. Reid: What does that mean? I'm confused. Cathy: This [...]

By |2017-05-09T15:57:37+00:00September 5, 2017|Body Image, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What’s The Sex Toy Etiquette When A Friend Has A New Toy?

What do you do if someone has a new cool sex toy and you want to see it? Do you just grab it? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G8o02f-kyAM Cathy: A good friend shows up with their brand new sex toy. So cool. Reid: It's so shiny. Cathy: It's nice and bright and it's one you've wanted to see forever. Reid: I want to touch [...]

By |2017-05-09T15:39:10+00:00September 2, 2017|Collaborators, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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