Relationship

SG3: What Kind Of Business Entity Should You Have?

What kind of business do you need? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Hello sex geeks! It’s the sex geek T-shirt. I’m Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/. Founder of http://www.sexgeeksummercamp.com/ Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ Reid: Also, employed by a secret corporation that we cannot name. Cathy: Yes Reid: Somewhere in San Jose. Cathy: Not far from here as a matter of fact. Reid: Maybe [...]

By |2017-05-03T00:14:51+00:00May 29, 2017|Sex Geeks|

How Can You Lead From Intention Vs Expectation?

How can you set intentions while giving space for audience's needs and direction? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   Reid: Yeah. Cathy: Talking about today about leading from intention versus expectation. How to listen to the room and hold space for it. Reid: That sounds like a facilitator question. Oh, my goodness! That's why I wear my Sex Geek Summer Camp, because we're talking about [...]

By |2017-05-02T23:49:06+00:00May 26, 2017|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

If You Start Oral Sex… Do You Have To Finish?

Do you really have to finish doing blow job until they come? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "If you start a blow job or cunnilingus, don't you have to finish?" Like, when we're talking about how you could say you we're done with stuff. They're like, "Don't you have to finish, wait, go until they cum? This is Reid [...]

By |2017-05-23T16:47:42+00:00May 23, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Partner Not Wanting To Sleep With You: Part IV

What do you do if you realize that their desire is already gone? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: You've done your thing, and your partner is still not wanting to sleep with you, not wanting to connect that way. What do you do? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. What would you do? Cathy: I've worked with a lot [...]

By |2017-05-02T23:14:45+00:00May 20, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|

Your Partner Doesn’t Want To Sleep With You… What Do You Do?

What do you do if your partner isn't interested in having sex with you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: You got the memo, too. Purple shirt day. Cathy: What do you do when your partner doesn't want to sleep with you? Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  It can be a really challenging thing, and you just did a great call [...]

By |2017-05-02T21:48:15+00:00May 11, 2017|Dating, Relationship Skills|

Passive Aggressive Friends And What You Can Do About Them…

What should you do if your friend won't go directly to you to talk about issues and won't let you know what he wants and instead, he gets passive aggressive? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What if you have a friend that you really care about who sometimes gets a little passive aggressive. Reid: Whatever.. Cathy: And not so suddenly pulls you down. Reid: Way to go. [...]

By |2017-05-02T18:01:01+00:00May 8, 2017|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|

End Up Falling In Love Every Time You’re Sexual?

What do you do if you're having a hard time not falling in love when you have sex? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you do if you've been struggling with being sexual? You're a really sexual person, but every time you're sexual you kind of fall in love, and it doesn't always end well. When you have that conflict going on, what can you do? [...]

By |2017-05-02T21:43:34+00:00May 5, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Talking To Your Partner About Lack Of Desire Can Be Challenging… How Do You Do It?

Do you owe your partner sex? What if you promised? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: How do you tell your partner in a way that's loving and caring that you're just not in the mood? Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And Reid Mihalco from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: How do you do it? What's your advice? Cathy: One, I have to [...]

By |2016-09-23T15:02:08+00:00April 8, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

Act As If You Were Lovable

Hi everyone. I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and today we’re talking about loving yourself. We get people all the time saying how they want to improve how they feel about themselves or self-esteem. How they come to relate to other people and court to that is how much you care for yourself. When you see someone walking down the street as if they are lovable and deserving, good things should [...]

By |2016-09-23T15:00:04+00:00April 2, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

Transitioning Gender? How Do People React In Mainstream Communities?

When you're transitioning your gender, how do people react? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: When you're transitioning gender, what are other people's reactions when you're in the mainstream? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: I'm Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com.  Raj: I'm Raj. I'm married to Andi.  Cathy: Thanks for being here. You're transitioning your gender?  Andi: Yes.  Cathy: I'm curious for both of [...]

By |2016-09-23T14:54:27+00:00March 11, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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