Self-expression

How Do You Deal With Someone Who Wants Different Things Out Of A Sexual Relationship?

What if one of you wants to have casual sex and the other wants a committed relationship? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy:  We have a video on playing games around sex and releasing old paradigms in our relationships, where a woman's not supposed to initiate sex, not supposed to have sex with someone for so many dates or whatever. There's a lot [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:11:33+00:00 November 12, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Body Confidence at Every Size

Confidence and Body Image can effect how we walk through the world, who we connect with, and who we let love us.. Kate McCombs from http://www.SexGeekdom.com, Ashley Manta from http://www.AshleyManta.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com share tips and their experiences. Cathy: Body confidence, body image, it affects everyone, no matter had big you are or how small you are, or what's going on for you. This is Kate from http://www.SexGeekdom.com [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:07:34+00:00 November 6, 2016|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can You Make Changing Your Sexual Identity Easier?

Discovering you like something different than you thought in bed can be exciting, but when it effects your identity, it can be really challenging. How can you support yourself through the process? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: How do you support yourself when you're transforming your sexuality?  Reid: Into what?  Cathy: Into something new, whether you're leaving kink or entering kink or [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:05:28+00:00 October 31, 2016|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Collaboration Tips and Pointers

Collaboration can let us get more done, quicker, and add more value. But how do you find the people you want to collaborate with? Kate McCombs from http://www.SexGeekdom.com, Ashley Manta from http://www.AshleyManta.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com share tips and their experiences. Cathy: We're talking about collaboration and how to identify people that would be really fun to work with, play with, create with. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com  Kate: [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:04:35+00:00 October 28, 2016|Collaborators, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What If You Want To Change The Level of Connection in A Relationship?

Been Hanging out with someone and want to not spend the same amount of time and intimacy with them? What do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com. Andi: That's really interesting, but then what happens if say you have had a connection with someone in the past, but right now you're just totally overbooked? You have so many amazing things happening in your life that [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:02:51+00:00 October 22, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can I Make My Meetup Group More Inclusive and Diverse?

How can I make my group more inviting to people with different backgrounds, incomes, ages, races, and perspectives? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone who runs a polyamory group wrote in and said, "I just started this group but it's mostly Caucasian people with money, how do I attract people..." Reid: That idea is again younger people. Cathy: Younger, yeah. How do I attract [...]

By | 2016-09-22T14:59:48+00:00 October 13, 2016|Collaborators, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Jealousy in Polyamorous Relationships: Examples and Stories

Wanting to handle jealousy better? What are examples of jealousy in poly relationships? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked about jealousy in a polyamorous relationship and was asking if we had some stories we could share that would help bring it down to a real level, like a more practical experiential level.  Reid: And Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com has a [...]

By | 2016-09-22T14:57:07+00:00 October 10, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Jealousy and the Law of Attraction

How does understanding jealousy can help you attract more of what you want in your life? Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.ThrivingNow.com (and founder of http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com) discuss how understanding jealousy can help you attract more of what you want in your life. Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://ThrivingNow.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. If you saw the first video, we were talking about how [...]

By | 2016-09-19T14:36:36+00:00 October 7, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can Understanding Jealousy Give You More Confidence?

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.ThrivingNow.com (and founder of http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com) discuss how understanding jealousy can give you more confidence. Cathy: Good evening, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://ThrivingNow.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. We're going to be talking about jealousy today. Reid: The green-eyed beast. Cathy: We all have jealousy and our society does not teach us how to deal with it well, most of [...]

By | 2016-09-19T14:33:29+00:00 October 4, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Dealing With Envy and Disappointment When There’s No Way To Get That Need Met…

It's easier to deal with disappointment and envy when you have alternatives... Can't have chocolate ice cream, just have chocolate chip. What do you when you can't have ice cream at all? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: This is Reid being helpful.  Reid: This is a very important question and I'm feeling intimidated.  Cathy: Someone asked:  "How do you deal with envy [...]

By | 2016-09-22T14:50:24+00:00 September 22, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|