Self-expression

If You Don’t Want To Have Sex With Your Partner… Should You?

Do you tell your partner if you're not in the mood to have sex?     Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1GTMgV5HqBU Reid: Welcome back. Or if this is the first video that you are watching. Welcome for the first time. Cathy: We are talking about how you can talk to your partner about not wanting to have sex, and do it in [...]

By | 2016-08-08T19:36:48+00:00 August 11, 2016|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Touch|

Talking To Your Partner About Lack Of Desire Can Be Challenging… How Do You Do It?

Do you owe your partner sex? What if you promised?   Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nrRQVial9q0 Cathy: How do you tell your partner in a way that's loving and caring that you're just not in the mood? Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And Reid Mihalco from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: How do you do it? What's your advice? Cathy: One, [...]

By | 2016-08-08T19:06:17+00:00 August 8, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills|

Giving Your Partner Feedback In Bed… How Do You Do That?

Want to see a role modeling of giving feedback in bed? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is awesome. We're going to get so meta. We're talking about how you can give your partners upgrades about certain things ...  Cathy: In bed.  Reid: In bed.  Cathy: Yeah.  Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com...  Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Reid: We're just going to do this [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:49:03+00:00 June 27, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What If You Tell A HUGE Lie?

How do you clean it up if you tell a big lie, and don't know what to do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We have a video about what to do if you tell a lie and get caught in it. Why did you do that?  Reid: I do that when I lie.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: Cathy Vartuli [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:02:29+00:00 June 21, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|

When Is It Time To Pull Out?

Knowing the sensations just before you come give you greater control and possibility during sex. With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Focus! What are we working on? This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko for http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: We have a question.  Cathy: You actually started this as a joke, but I actually want to know. How do you know [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:32:40+00:00 May 19, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Keep Running Into An Ex-Friend And Feel Drawn To Reconnect?

If you're in the same social circle and keep running into an ex-friend... How do you not get pulled in again? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: All right. Someone wrote in and said that they watched our video about talking about conflict.  Reid: We love when you write in!  Cathy: Yes.  Reid: Keep writing in.  Cathy: She said it actually went really [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:00:25+00:00 May 16, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Trauma|

3 Top Tips To Make Going Down On Her Mind Blowing

Get your PhD in Cunnilingus with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Cunnilingus tips? Cathy: Yes. Reid: All right. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Reid travels all around the country teaching a workshop at sex-toy stores and colleges on how to be a better lover. Reid: I teach all kinds of things like that. [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:30:34+00:00 April 28, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How To Give An Awesome Blowjob!

Ever wonder how you can give a better blowjob? Or what to request for a mind-blowing experience? Learn more with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: How do you give a blowjob? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We teach this amazing workshop on how to give a blowjob. Reid: It's called blowjob grad school, [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:34:09+00:00 April 25, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Did Your Partner “Steal” Your Latest Crush?

What if your partner beats you to the punch flirting with someone you like? What can you do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: What happens when you and your partner are interested in the same person and they start flirting with them first? Beating you to the punch. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And, Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: What [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:09:44+00:00 March 11, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Can You Really Be Picky About Who You Date… Can You Really Date Your Species?

Isn't it hard to find someone to date? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Can you really design happiness into your relationships?  Reid: Hello, that's bullshit. Do you ever listen to Reid Mihalko? Oh my lord!  Cathy: Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com talks about dating your species ...  Reid: I hate him, I don't like that man. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, and [...]

By | 2016-04-13T11:54:56+00:00 March 8, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|