Self-expression

Intimacy and Connection: Taking, with Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about Taking. Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, here with Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org. We're delighted to have her. She has vast experience and really great insights. In the previous video, we talked about being done to. Now we're going to talk about taking. Betty: In the context of those several [...]

By |2016-01-07T12:37:42+00:00February 27, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Receiving vs Being Done To: Betty Martin on Intimacy

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about receiving and being "done to." Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, I’m here with Betty Martin fromhttp://www.BettyMartin.org. Betty has great insight into how people can have more intimacy and connection in really powerful ways. Some of it is really subtle, but it makes just a delightful difference. Betty, what is the [...]

By |2016-01-07T12:37:27+00:00February 24, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Taking and Receiving: With Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about making taking and receiving consciously. Cathy: Today, we're talking about taking and receiving. I'm here with Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Betty, why is it important for people to understand the difference between giving and receiving? Betty: That's a great question, and that's one that's really very often confusing [...]

By |2016-01-19T13:15:33+00:00February 20, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Playing with Touch and Intimacy: with Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about playing with touch and intimacy. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from www.TheIntimacyDojo.com here with Betty Martin from www.BettyMartin.org. She's going to share the three-minute game with us. Hey, Betty. Betty: Hey! (Laugh). My favorite topic. Cathy: Is it? Betty: Yes. Pretty much. I'm writing a book on it. We've been talking with you [...]

By |2016-01-07T12:36:22+00:00February 14, 2016|Dating, Flirting|

Taking the Confusion Out of Giving Intimacy: With Betty Martin

Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Here with Betty Martin fromhttp://www.BettyMartin.org. We're talking about giving. Now, have you ever been confused about giving and felt a little awkward about it? Betty is going to show us some ways to make it more clear and easy. Thanks, Betty. Betty: Thank you. First I want to define giving, because it can be thought of in a lot of ways. In our [...]

By |2016-01-08T06:07:12+00:00February 11, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Dealing with Insecurity and Worry: Moving Into The Fear

Do you find yourself getting insecure? Worrying if you're being obnoxious or annoying? Turn your brain on it's head... with this tip from Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Are you ever afraid that you're being annoying or does your insecurity come up and bite you in the butt? It can get really in your head. The more you think about it, the more you pull back [...]

By |2016-01-11T13:13:44+00:00November 8, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills|

Finding A Balance: Self-Expression and Helping Others Feel Comfortable

How to find a balance where you're not offending? Some people are hard to read so you don't always know, if you've offended people. Finding that safe balance  can be a challenge. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about how to find a balance between self-expression and helping others feel comfortable. Cathy: I had shared in a video how I don't like to [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:42:01+00:00May 1, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills|

Building Self-Esteem to Overcome Shyness

If you want to get out there and build more connections, make friends, find romantic partners, self-esteem and self-confidence are key. Join Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they discuss powerful steps to building self-esteem! Cathy: Hi, everyone.  I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com.  I was feeling a little not confident there. Cathy: Oh, so you're vamping a little bit. Reid: [...]

By |2016-01-06T10:12:08+00:00July 4, 2014|Body Image|

Where Sex Meets “Isms”: From Shame to Self-Expression

This panel was presented at the 2013 Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit in DC, http://www.sexualfreedomsummit.org by emotional freedom coach Cathy Vartuli  from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, 2013 EXXXOTICA BBW Female Performer of the Year Kelly Shibari from http://KellyShibariXXX.com, iconic transgender filmmaker Buck Angel http://www.BuckAngel.com, sensuality guru Elle "Lady Cheeky" Chase from http://www.LadyCheeky.com and http://www.SmutForSmarties.com, and outspoken sex blogger N'Jaila Rhee from http://www.BlasianBytch.com. Each person's sexual self-expression is unique, and requires courage and self-knowledge to [...]

By |2016-01-19T13:53:27+00:00November 27, 2013|Collaborators|

Gender and Identity with Allison Moon

Allison Moon from http://www.LesbianWerewolves.com joins Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and about gender and identity. Cathy: Hey, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com here with Allison Moon from http://LesbianWerewolves.com. So you teach some classes approach. Can you share a little bit for people that -- a lot of people think everything is very binary, and you're either male or female and you should be more to attract someone. And to [...]

By |2016-01-07T09:35:38+00:00June 21, 2013|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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