Sex Education

How To Run A Sex Geek Work Weekend

How do you facilitate work weekends with your sex educator peers? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So someone wrote in and said, I heard about these works weekends, I’ve been running some and another people get to or people get together and crank out work. It's lot more fun sometimes and they’re wanting to know how to facilitate it where people are not chatting too [...]

By | 2017-05-03T20:11:13+00:00 July 10, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Facing Judgement As A Sex Educator and/or Sex Worker?

Shamed for being a sex educator and/or sex worker? What can you do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Are you going to do the business thing? Reid: Yah I’m going to do the business thing cause when I’m wearing the Sex Geek Summer Camp t-shirt that means were talking about business for sex educators and things like that. Cathy: What’s like wearing purple orchid [...]

By | 2017-05-03T03:12:58+00:00 June 25, 2017|Flirting, Sex Geeks, Shame|

How Can I Be More Present During Sex?

How can you enhance pleasure and connection during sex? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Have you meet more presents during sex? Reid: I’m sorry, what? Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: And we we’re just talking about of how to notice your partner energy more. And one of the basic things you need to do for that [...]

By | 2017-05-03T02:50:57+00:00 June 22, 2017|Energy, Flirting, Sex Geeks|

Wound Up After A Sexual Encounter? Can’t Sleep?

Are you finding hard to sleep after a sexual encounter? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So what do you do… Reid: Tada!! Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Never spin around. That’s an intro. Cathy: Would you like to spin back right now? Reid: No, I’ll do it at the end. What are we talking about? Cathy: Someone wrote in [...]

By | 2017-05-03T01:40:04+00:00 June 10, 2017|Flirting, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Can You Lead From Intention Vs Expectation?

How can you set intentions while giving space for audience's needs and direction? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   Reid: Yeah. Cathy: Talking about today about leading from intention versus expectation. How to listen to the room and hold space for it. Reid: That sounds like a facilitator question. Oh, my goodness! That's why I wear my Sex Geek Summer Camp, because we're talking about [...]

By | 2017-05-02T23:49:06+00:00 May 26, 2017|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

If You’re The Go To Expert Around Sex, How Do You Make Space For Your Own Growth?

When everyone is turning to you... When do you get time, space and focus to do your own growth and learning? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: How do you deal with being both a sex educator and a human being? Being the resource for information on dealing with personal relationship issues we all have? I have this feeling like one must know [...]

By | 2016-09-23T15:28:40+00:00 April 26, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Can I Be A Sex Educator Even If I’m Not Having A Lot Of Sex Right Now?

Does a sex educator have to be having great sex a lot to be in integrity? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: I can't take him anywhere. Reid: That's why we sit right here, in front of this camera. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said they're a sex educator. Good job. They're also going through a lot of transition about their sexuality right [...]

By | 2016-09-23T15:26:10+00:00 April 20, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do You Handle Risk (No Not The Board Game) … And How Can It Be Easier?

Without some risk or growth, life can be boring, but if risk seems terrifying, what can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: Today, we're talking about risk. How do you handle it and how can it be easier for you? Reid: You mean the board game? Cathy: Yes, of course. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from [...]

By | 2016-09-23T14:48:43+00:00 February 27, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Certain Sexual Positions Hurt… Is That Normal?

Its fun to be able to mix it up and try new things... But what if some of the sexual positions you try hurt? What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "I'm wondering if it's normal to have pain during certain sexual positions. I noticed that when riding my boyfriend or being in the doggy [...]

By | 2016-09-22T16:48:51+00:00 December 24, 2016|Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch, Trauma|

What Do You Do When You Realize What You’ve Been Teaching Is Wrong?!

Its a horrible feeling. You've been confidently teaching what you thought was great advice... And wham! You find out its wrong. What do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: What do you do when you realize what you're teaching is wrong? I love that. I love being wrong. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Sex Geek Summer Camp Reid: [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:33:19+00:00 December 12, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|