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Does Holding Hands Make You Uncomfortable? Can You Get Close To People Anyway?

Are you scared or uncomfortable holding hands? How can you date or let people close? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: What do you do if you want to get close to people, you want to go dating, but you're scared of holding hands?  Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. If you are not comfortable [...]

By | 2016-09-23T14:36:08+00:00 January 20, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Afraid of Touch? Tips for Creating Safety Around Touch

Fear of touch can create a conflict- you long for connection and you freeze up at the thought. People need touch to really thrive. Avoid skin hunger and learn how to start feeling safer receiving concentual touch and getting the warmth and connection you long for. Reid Mihalko from http://www.reidaboutsex.com/ and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.theintimacydojo.com/ share tips and approaches to allow you to feel safer giving and receiving touch. Cathy: Hey, [...]

By | 2016-09-23T14:31:29+00:00 January 17, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

What If Your Potential Partner Has Herpes?

A lot of people are nervous about connecting with people with herpes. Join Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share. Cathy: Hi Reid. One of our listeners asked, is it safe to be involved with someone with herpes? Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: Is it safe? Cathy: Well, it is true that our culture makes ... Reid: That was a shout [...]

By | 2016-09-23T14:30:52+00:00 January 14, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Trauma|

If I Have Sex With Him, Will He Disappear?

Traditional advise says women should hold back on being sexual so the man will pursue. Is that still valid and what are the alternatives? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, “I recently had sexual encounter with a new man. I know we really like each other and we seeing each other twice now. Something I [...]

By | 2016-09-23T14:30:03+00:00 January 11, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|

Why Turns You On? Are You Spontaneous or Responsive In Bed?

Ever wonder if there's something wrong with you if you didn't get turned on the "right" way? What if there's nothing wrong... And you just have a different way of responding? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: What's the difference between responsive and spontaneous sexuality? How do you know which one you have? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: I'm Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com.  [...]

By | 2016-09-22T16:56:10+00:00 January 5, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Is Monosexism and How Does It Effect You?

Attracted to people of different genders? You could face mono sexism! What is it? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com. Cathy: What is monosexism and how does it affect you? I'm Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: I'm Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com.  Cathy: Could you define monosexism for us?  Andi: Totally. This is discrimination against someone who is attracted to more than one sex. If you think [...]

By | 2016-09-22T16:55:25+00:00 January 2, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Keep The Fire Burning Hot In Bed?

Once you have a spark... How do you fan the flame? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: You may be feeling sexy and we just talked about this in the previous video, Responsive Versus Spontaneous, but how do you keep that going? Once you've got the spark going, how do you keep the fire burning nice and hot? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: [...]

By | 2016-09-22T16:50:11+00:00 December 30, 2016|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Video Geek Tips: What Do You take On The Road?

When you're doing video interviews on the road, what do you take with you? With Cathy Vartuli of http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Hello. Sex geek, welcome back to Sex Geek's School for Gifted Sex Geeks. SG3. Today we have a special guest. Ladies and gentlemen, Cathy Vartuli of The Intimacy Dojo, goes the crowd.  Cathy: Hi, everyone.  Reid: We have some meta stuff going on today. This [...]

By | 2016-01-08T09:31:55+00:00 December 29, 2016|Event, Sex Geeks|

What Role Does Intuition Play In The Bedroom?

When it comes to sexual play, words are really important. Where does intuition come into play and what if its one of the things that turns you on? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: So someone wrote in and said:  "Hey Reid, sexy question here."  Reid: Ooh, sexy question time.  Cathy: "So I've just read one of your articles on communicating and not [...]

By | 2016-09-22T16:49:17+00:00 December 27, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Certain Sexual Positions Hurt… Is That Normal?

Its fun to be able to mix it up and try new things... But what if some of the sexual positions you try hurt? What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "I'm wondering if it's normal to have pain during certain sexual positions. I noticed that when riding my boyfriend or being in the doggy [...]

By | 2016-09-22T16:48:51+00:00 December 24, 2016|Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch, Trauma|