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Dealing With Expectations, Agreements, And Disappointment

How do you gracefully (or even awkwardly) handle unmet expectations, agreements and disappointment? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Video number two on expectations.  Cathy: Dealing with disappointment, because they go often hand in hand.  Reid: Yes, I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Go, Cathy, go.  Cathy: We just did a video on how disappointment can be a [...]

By | 2016-09-22T14:46:25+00:00 September 25, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Dealing With Envy and Disappointment When There’s No Way To Get That Need Met…

It's easier to deal with disappointment and envy when you have alternatives... Can't have chocolate ice cream, just have chocolate chip. What do you when you can't have ice cream at all? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: This is Reid being helpful.  Reid: This is a very important question and I'm feeling intimidated.  Cathy: Someone asked:  "How do you deal with envy [...]

By | 2016-09-22T14:50:24+00:00 September 22, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|

How Do You Handle Disappointment In The Bedroom?

Disappointment sucks. In the bedroom it can bring debilitating shame. What can you do and how can you handle it?     With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Disappointment and ponies. Video number four. This one's about disappointment in bed. I'm Reid Milhako from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Cathy Vartulli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. We are not talking about sleeping with ponies, not that we judge anybody [...]

By | 2016-09-19T06:34:17+00:00 September 19, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Uncategorized|

When Is It Time To Pull Out?

Knowing the sensations just before you come give you greater control and possibility during sex. With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Focus! What are we working on? This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko for http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: We have a question.  Cathy: You actually started this as a joke, but I actually want to know. How do you know [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:32:40+00:00 May 19, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Keep Running Into An Ex-Friend And Feel Drawn To Reconnect?

If you're in the same social circle and keep running into an ex-friend... How do you not get pulled in again? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: All right. Someone wrote in and said that they watched our video about talking about conflict.  Reid: We love when you write in!  Cathy: Yes.  Reid: Keep writing in.  Cathy: She said it actually went really [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:00:25+00:00 May 16, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Trauma|

3 Top Tips To Make Going Down On Her Mind Blowing

Get your PhD in Cunnilingus with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Cunnilingus tips? Cathy: Yes. Reid: All right. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Reid travels all around the country teaching a workshop at sex-toy stores and colleges on how to be a better lover. Reid: I teach all kinds of things like that. [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:30:34+00:00 April 28, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How To Give An Awesome Blowjob!

Ever wonder how you can give a better blowjob? Or what to request for a mind-blowing experience? Learn more with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: How do you give a blowjob? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We teach this amazing workshop on how to give a blowjob. Reid: It's called blowjob grad school, [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:34:09+00:00 April 25, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do You Know If Being A Sex Educator Is Right For You?

Is this a good career for you? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm getting this. Someone asked us, how did you find out that you're interested in being a sex educator. They're really intrigued by a lot of the social studies and human behaviors, but they're not really sure what aspects of it intrigued the most or how to go about being [...]

By | 2016-01-08T05:55:08+00:00 April 4, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Do You Say When The Condom Breaks During Intercourse?

Did they tell the truth?  What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com  and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from Reid About Sex. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from The Intimacy Dojo. (Laughs) Reid: Sing it! Cathy: Oh no, they'll just hang up. Reid: All right. All right. I'll let you off this time. Cathy: Oh thanks. Reid: What's the question?  Cathy: So someone wrote in and [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:41:20+00:00 March 2, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Intimacy and Connection: Taking, with Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about Taking. Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, here with Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org. We're delighted to have her. She has vast experience and really great insights. In the previous video, we talked about being done to. Now we're going to talk about taking. Betty: In the context of those several [...]

By | 2016-01-07T12:37:42+00:00 February 27, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|