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Receiving vs Being Done To: Betty Martin on Intimacy

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about receiving and being "done to." Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, I’m here with Betty Martin fromhttp://www.BettyMartin.org. Betty has great insight into how people can have more intimacy and connection in really powerful ways. Some of it is really subtle, but it makes just a delightful difference. Betty, what is the [...]

By | 2016-01-07T12:37:27+00:00 February 24, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Taking and Receiving: With Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about making taking and receiving consciously. Cathy: Today, we're talking about taking and receiving. I'm here with Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Betty, why is it important for people to understand the difference between giving and receiving? Betty: That's a great question, and that's one that's really very often confusing [...]

By | 2016-01-19T13:15:33+00:00 February 20, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Intimacy and Connection: Allowing, with Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about Allowing. Cathy: Hi, everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. You're with Betty Martin from www.BettyMartin.org. We're going to be talking about 'allowing' now. Betty, why is that important? Why do we need to talk about this? Betty: Because it is so fun. That's why. Cathy: (Laughing). I love talking about fun things. [...]

By | 2016-04-14T11:34:43+00:00 February 17, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Playing with Touch and Intimacy: with Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about playing with touch and intimacy. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from www.TheIntimacyDojo.com here with Betty Martin from www.BettyMartin.org. She's going to share the three-minute game with us. Hey, Betty. Betty: Hey! (Laugh). My favorite topic. Cathy: Is it? Betty: Yes. Pretty much. I'm writing a book on it. We've been talking with you [...]

By | 2016-01-07T12:36:22+00:00 February 14, 2016|Dating, Flirting|

Taking the Confusion Out of Giving Intimacy: With Betty Martin

Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Here with Betty Martin fromhttp://www.BettyMartin.org. We're talking about giving. Now, have you ever been confused about giving and felt a little awkward about it? Betty is going to show us some ways to make it more clear and easy. Thanks, Betty. Betty: Thank you. First I want to define giving, because it can be thought of in a lot of ways. In our [...]

By | 2016-01-08T06:07:12+00:00 February 11, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Deal With Change In A Relationship?

Moving across country for a job? Any big change can stress a relationship. What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: Dealing with change in a relationship can be really challenging. Moving across country because one person has a job or for other reasons, that can put a lot of turmoil into a relationship. How do you deal with that? I'm Cathy [...]

By | 2016-01-08T07:35:30+00:00 July 21, 2015|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

As A Woman Who Likes Women…What Is Your Favorite Thing About A Vulva?

Allison Moon from http://www.LesbianWerewolves.com joins Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and shares what she most likes about vulvas... learn more here! Cathy: Hey, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com, and I'm here today with Allison Moon from http://LesbianWerewolves.com. Hey, Allison! Allison: Hi! How it's going? Cathy: Good! I'm so glad you're here with us. Allison: I'm glad I'm here too. Cathy: So as a woman who likes women, can you [...]

By | 2016-01-06T08:57:32+00:00 June 19, 2013|Body Image, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What is a Lesbian Werewolf?

Ever wonder what a Lesbian Werewolf is? Allison Moon from http://www.LesbianWerewolves.com joins Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and shares about her latest book and why she decided to write it. Cathy: Hey, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com here with Allison Moon from http://LesbianWerewolves.com. And we're asking Allison, what is a lesbian werewolf? Allison: Well, when a werewolf loves a werewolf very, very much. So lesbian werewolves, I wrote a [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:36:28+00:00 June 17, 2013|Sex Geeks|

Clitorial Legs and How They Can Rock Her World

Cathy: Have you ever wondered about a woman’s clit? Did you know that the clit has legs? I actually didn’t know this. I had one for 40-some years before I found out, but it’s really fun. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Hi. And this is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And… Reid: Today we’re talking about the clitoral legs. Cathy: They’re amazing. Reid: They are amazing. So without [...]

By | 2016-01-07T06:43:03+00:00 June 15, 2013|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Premature Ejaculation

Cathy: Hi, everyone. Have you ever wondered... I'm sorry I'm messing this up, I don't know how to start this. Reid: You messed up prematurely? Cathy: I prematurely messed it up. Reid: Guess what this one is about. Premature ejaculation. Cathy: We've had several people email and asking for help with this, how do you deal with it. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: [...]

By | 2016-01-04T13:01:20+00:00 June 12, 2013|Body Image, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|