Sex

Single Man Wanting To Go To A Swingers Club?

Single men can have a challenge going to a swingers club. Some suggestions for opening doors. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com share. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said that he'd like to go to a swingers club. He wanted to experience it, but he's a single male and he wants to know how to get sponsored so he can go. Do you have any suggestions? Reid: [...]

By | 2015-12-23T14:30:15+00:00 August 25, 2015|Sex Geeks|

Condom Broke?! What Do You Do Now?

What do you do when the condom breaks? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: What do you do when the condom breaks? Coming up now. I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: What do you do when the condom breaks, Cathy? Cathy: Initially, there is usually panic because we're taught that that's scary. Reid: That's the worst. Cathy: There's STIs, [...]

By | 2016-01-04T12:36:27+00:00 August 1, 2015|Sex Geeks|

How Do You Deal With Change In A Relationship?

Moving across country for a job? Any big change can stress a relationship. What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: Dealing with change in a relationship can be really challenging. Moving across country because one person has a job or for other reasons, that can put a lot of turmoil into a relationship. How do you deal with that? I'm Cathy [...]

By | 2016-01-08T07:35:30+00:00 July 21, 2015|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do I Know If My Fantasies Are Okay… And How Do I Develop My Fantasies?

Ever wonder, if your fantasies are okay, and if you don't have really good fantasies, how could you develop your skill at creating fantasies? How do you know which fantasies are okay and which ones aren't? Listen to relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they are talking about fantasies. Cathy: Are my fantasies okay, and if I don't have really good fantasies, how could I develop [...]

By | 2016-01-05T07:51:56+00:00 July 17, 2015|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

I Have A Hard Time Tuning In And Being More Present

Finding out where your venn diagram overlaps with your partner so you might be able to find your yes in an area that's really juicy for them too. If you have a hard time tuning into that, and always feel rushed and in a hurry, then join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to slow down, and be more present. Cathy: Someone asked when...we [...]

By | 2016-01-05T09:01:57+00:00 July 8, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Recover From A Critical Partner?

Was your partner very critical over a period of time, and now he's being less critical, but it's really hard for you to go back. Do you feel shut down, and expecting criticism every time you talk? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to talk about delayed ejaculation and increase pleasure. Reid: Surprise topic! Cathy: I think you can't be that loud, because their speakers [...]

By | 2016-04-13T07:38:21+00:00 July 5, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do I Know If My Partner Is Faking It?

How do you know if your partner had orgasm? We all have faked orgasm before, it's true, we do sometimes. What you want to start doing is start talking to each other about the kind of sex that you like. What gets you off, what doesn't get you off, when you're not having the sex. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and find out more about [...]

By | 2016-01-04T12:42:41+00:00 June 26, 2015|Body Image, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch|

What If I’m Poly But My Friends and Co-Workers Don’t Know?

I'm afraid they'll think I'm cheating if they see me out on a date. What to do with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Road trip YouTube videos. What are we talking about today Cathy Vartuli of the Intimacy Dojo? Cathy: Dot com. Reid: Dot com. Cathy: And Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. We're talking about poly. Someone wrote in and said, "I'm poly, but I'm afraid [...]

By | 2016-01-05T09:14:42+00:00 May 21, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can I Know When To Stop In Bed?

Do you know when to stop? Some women want to stop when they have an orgasm, and some women are multi-orgasmic, or just want to keep enjoying. Some men, too. Having a discussion with your partner about it can be really powerful. There's ways that you can set up agreements ahead of time. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about when to [...]

By | 2016-01-04T12:47:14+00:00 May 16, 2015|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Can I Share My STI / STD Test Results With My Partner?

How to make it seem normal to talk about STI testing which isn't in our society? Talking about things with your partner before you do them, can soften the blow. You don't want it to come as a surprise. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to tell your partner about your STI/STD results. Cathy: One of our listeners wrote in and said she [...]

By | 2016-01-05T06:12:12+00:00 May 10, 2015|Relationship Skills|