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What Is Gender Queer?

And what about pronouns? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com. Cathy: What is genderqueer? I'm Catherine Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. I'm really honored to be joined today by Andi Cortland.  Andi: From http://www.LevelUpSex.com. Today, we're talking about genderqueer. For me, that means that I don't feel like a man. I don't feel like a woman. I just feel like a human. It would be pretty awesome if people [...]

By | 2016-11-07T16:07:53+00:00 April 29, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Do You Do When One Partner Wants Something and The Other Doesn’t?

How do you deal with the shame and social pressure and choose what's right for you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: How do you deal with it when one partner wants something and the other partner doesn't? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: I'm Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com.  Raj: I'm Raj, I'm married to Andi.  Cathy: It is a challenge when ... We're [...]

By | 2016-09-23T14:42:29+00:00 February 9, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What If You And Your Partner Have Very Different Needs Around Play Parties?

What if you're shyer and don't want to jump in the middle of the pile? Or what if you do what to jump in the middle of the pile? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: What if you and your partner have very different needs about play parties, what you want to express, what you want to experience? It can be a challenge. What [...]

By | 2016-09-23T14:41:04+00:00 February 3, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Why Turns You On? Are You Spontaneous or Responsive In Bed?

Ever wonder if there's something wrong with you if you didn't get turned on the "right" way? What if there's nothing wrong... And you just have a different way of responding? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: What's the difference between responsive and spontaneous sexuality? How do you know which one you have? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: I'm Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com.  [...]

By | 2016-09-22T16:56:10+00:00 January 5, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Is Monosexism and How Does It Effect You?

Attracted to people of different genders? You could face mono sexism! What is it? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com. Cathy: What is monosexism and how does it affect you? I'm Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: I'm Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com.  Cathy: Could you define monosexism for us?  Andi: Totally. This is discrimination against someone who is attracted to more than one sex. If you think [...]

By | 2016-09-22T16:55:25+00:00 January 2, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Keep The Fire Burning Hot In Bed?

Once you have a spark... How do you fan the flame? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: You may be feeling sexy and we just talked about this in the previous video, Responsive Versus Spontaneous, but how do you keep that going? Once you've got the spark going, how do you keep the fire burning nice and hot? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: [...]

By | 2016-09-22T16:50:11+00:00 December 30, 2016|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Transparent Do You Need To Be In Business… And What About Privacy?

Personal stories can help people feel safe and understood. Where is the boundary between privacy and transparency? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Oh we got a good question. When I'm wearing the Sex Geek Summer Camp shirt, we're talking about business for sex educators around building careers and branding and marketing and stuff, when I'm just wearing the Sex Geek shirt, these [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:32:30+00:00 December 9, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Fluid Bonded With Someone Who Isn’t Being As Careful As You’d Like?

How do you set boundaries about safer sex with fluid bonded partners? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, my husband and I are fluid bonded with another couple, but they're more active in the scene and engage with a woman who loves unprotected group sex. Reid: What's the scene? Cathy: I believe they're swingers scene. Reid: The swingers scene, okay. [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:09:01+00:00 November 9, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Afraid of Discussing Sex? What If You Have a Sex-Positive Business?

How can you be empowered about discussing sex when you feel frightened and ashamed to talk about sex in public? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, and Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com. Cathy: What if you're ashamed to use the word sex or talk about intimacy? What if you're afraid of it? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: I'm Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com.  Cathy: Thank you for sharing this. I went through [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:03:44+00:00 October 25, 2016|Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

What To Know How To Get Sponsors For Your Heart Centered Business?

Learn the 411 of getting sponsors and leaving them feel super happy! Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: It's recording. Have you ever wondered how to get sponsors? Reid: I have. Hi! This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com, the creator of Sex Geek Summer Camp and when I'm wearing the camp shirt, it's business advise with Cathy Vartuli from the Intimacy Dojo. Cathy: I [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:14:20+00:00 May 28, 2016|Event|