Touch

Want To Spice Up Your Masterbastion Time?

Do you need some more information on masturbation? Some new tricks, some things to spice it up? Watch this video with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com to find out more. Reid: Self love.  Masturbation. One on one. I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: We had an amazing person leave a comment, writing to us saying, "Could I get some more [...]

By |2016-01-04T12:38:40+00:00July 29, 2015|Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Can I Know When To Stop In Bed?

Do you know when to stop? Some women want to stop when they have an orgasm, and some women are multi-orgasmic, or just want to keep enjoying. Some men, too. Having a discussion with your partner about it can be really powerful. There's ways that you can set up agreements ahead of time. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about when to [...]

By |2016-01-04T12:47:14+00:00May 16, 2015|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do I Know When She’s Come

Cathy: How do you know when she has an orgasm, so you know when to stop? Someone wrote in asking about that and I love that the person wants to know more. There is a lot of pressure I think in our society to know when the person had an orgasm or not. Reid: Our society is very orgasm-centric. Cathy: You supposed to do the orgasm then you're done. Reid: Yeah, because now we [...]

By |2016-01-06T08:24:12+00:00August 9, 2014|Dating, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Cathy on Tuning

Reid: Hi this is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: You use this phrase "tuning" to somebody. Please explain for our viewers. Your esoteric languaging. Cathy: Yes, OK. Well, there's two levels you can do that at: 1) you can communicate with your partner and understand what ... you have them explain verbally what they would like to do. Reid: Mm-hmm. Cathy: What turns them on, what stimulates them. And so you [...]

By |2016-01-06T10:07:34+00:00August 4, 2014|Flirting, Relationship Skills|

What To Do If Your Partner Isn’t Hard

Not to sure what to do in bed if your partner's penis isn't hard? Do you feel ashamed or embarrassed? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they discuss playing with penises if they aren't hard. Cathy: Hey everyone. Have you ever been in bed with someone and you weren't quite sure how to proceed. Maybe they weren't getting hard when you were playing [...]

By |2016-01-06T08:47:09+00:00June 6, 2014|Dating, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch|

Mindful Touching

We can get lost in our heads... and when we're present and mindful, touch feels so amazing! Join Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com to learn more. Reid: Touching with mindfulness and what was it? Cathy: I don't remember what I said. Reid: It was good though. Cathy: Yes. Reid: So touching mindfully is the topic for this video and Cathy Vartuli, why is it important to [...]

By |2016-04-13T08:21:35+00:00April 15, 2013|Dating, Relationship Skills, Touch|

How Body Image Changes Romantic Connection

Have you found that body image (your view of your own body, your thoughts about what other people think, what they actually think about your body) gets in the way of connecting with people, especially romantically? We're all built differently, and when we stop critiquing ourselves, we may find that others aren't judging us as harshly as we thought! Want the inside scoop from Kelly Shibari from http://ThePRSMGroup.com and http://www.KellyShibariXXX.com? [...]

By |2016-01-07T09:32:50+00:00March 6, 2013|Dating, Shame, Touch|

Afraid of Attraction or Arousal? We’re Not in 7th Grade Anymore!

Are you afraid of other people's attraction? Or your own arousal? Most of us can actually control ourselves. You can upgrade your beliefs and feel more confident with yourself and others. Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ share tips and approaches to help you appreciate your pre-frontal cortex! Cathy: Are you still afraid of attraction? A lot of us are. We're taught when we're young that we [...]

By |2016-04-13T08:55:55+00:00February 13, 2013|Dating, Flirting|

Tips for Creating Safety Around Touch.

Fear of touch can create a conflict- you long for connection and you freeze up at the thought. People need touch to really thrive. Avoid skin hunger and learn how to start feeling safer receiving concentual touch and getting the warmth and connection you long for. Reid Mihalko from http://www.reidaboutsex.com/ and Cathy Vartuli from https://www.theintimacydojo.com/ share tips and approaches to allow you to feel safer giving and receiving touch. Cathy: [...]

By |2016-01-06T12:10:24+00:00November 8, 2012|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Trauma|
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