Trust

If You’re The Go To Expert Around Sex, How Do You Make Space For Your Own Growth?

When everyone is turning to you... When do you get time, space and focus to do your own growth and learning? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: How do you deal with being both a sex educator and a human being? Being the resource for information on dealing with personal relationship issues we all have? I have this feeling like one must know [...]

By | 2016-09-23T15:28:40+00:00 April 26, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Know Who Has Bandwidth For Listening And Support?

Sharing helps so much. How do you if they have room to listen and hear your vulnerable sharing? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So we just answered the question about someone who’d shared vulnerably have been judged by her family or husband. There are times when sharing vulnerably especially if you’re going through a lot. Reid: And if you didn’t see that video, they [...]

By | 2016-09-23T14:50:31+00:00 March 5, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Handle Risk (No Not The Board Game) … And How Can It Be Easier?

Without some risk or growth, life can be boring, but if risk seems terrifying, what can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: Today, we're talking about risk. How do you handle it and how can it be easier for you? Reid: You mean the board game? Cathy: Yes, of course. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from [...]

By | 2016-09-23T14:48:43+00:00 February 27, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What If You Tell A HUGE Lie?

How do you clean it up if you tell a big lie, and don't know what to do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We have a video about what to do if you tell a lie and get caught in it. Why did you do that?  Reid: I do that when I lie.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: Cathy Vartuli [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:02:29+00:00 June 21, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|

Keep Running Into An Ex-Friend And Feel Drawn To Reconnect?

If you're in the same social circle and keep running into an ex-friend... How do you not get pulled in again? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: All right. Someone wrote in and said that they watched our video about talking about conflict.  Reid: We love when you write in!  Cathy: Yes.  Reid: Keep writing in.  Cathy: She said it actually went really [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:00:25+00:00 May 16, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Trauma|

Can You Really Just Watch Your Partner Sleep With Someone Else?

If your partner wants to sleep with someone else, does it work for you to watch? Or does that make you feel bad? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "What's wrong with you dude? You just sit there and watch while someone else fucked your girl?" and while the language wasn't very polite I really think there's a [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:04:00+00:00 May 1, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Being Accused of Being a Cheater… When You’re Innocent?

What if your partner keeps expecting you to cheat? And you're not! Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said "My partner thinks I'm going to cheat in the future and he's spending a lot of time talking about it. But the thing is, I haven't done anything that I'm aware of and I have no intention to cheat. What [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:08:54+00:00 March 26, 2016|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Did Your Partner “Steal” Your Latest Crush?

What if your partner beats you to the punch flirting with someone you like? What can you do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: What happens when you and your partner are interested in the same person and they start flirting with them first? Beating you to the punch. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And, Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: What [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:09:44+00:00 March 11, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Do You Do If Your Partner Lies To You Repeatedly?

Is your partner keep lying to you but you don't want to leave him/her? First, know that there's a difference between that kind of lie which is not really a big deal, versus those really big lies that can affect your relationship and your partner is keeping them from you. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about what to do, if your partner lies to [...]

By | 2016-01-05T06:06:27+00:00 June 29, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills|

How Can We Rebuild Trust In Our Relationship?

How do you rebuild trust in your relationship? What can you do, if you have a lot of struggle over time and you're just not feeling really easy and trusting with each other. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and find out how to bring back trust in your relationship. Cathy: One of our listeners wrote in and said, "How do I rebuild trust in my relationship? We've [...]

By | 2016-01-05T06:12:04+00:00 April 16, 2015|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|