Video Geek Tips: What Do You take On The Road?

When you're doing video interviews on the road, what do you take with you? With Cathy Vartuli of and Reid Mihalko from Reid: Hello. Sex geek, welcome back to Sex Geek's School for Gifted Sex Geeks. SG3. Today we have a special guest. Ladies and gentlemen, Cathy Vartuli of The Intimacy Dojo, goes the crowd.  Cathy: Hi, everyone.  Reid: We have some meta stuff going on today. This [...]

By | 2016-01-08T09:31:55+00:00 December 29, 2016|Event, Sex Geeks|

I Want Be On Video But I Don’t Look “Right”…

How can I make videos when I'm too (insert your favorite limiter here... big, old, young). Change that with Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from and Cathy: We're shooting videos to help you shoot videos. We're talking to people that are making a difference because they learned how to at Reid Mihalko’s Sex Geek Summer Camp. We're having a contest; he's also from I am [...]

By | 2016-01-08T09:32:57+00:00 December 17, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Can I Shoot Video Even If There’s Background Noise?

Want to make a difference in the world... But have lots of background noise. Find out how with Cathy Vartuli from and the ever goofy Reid Mihalko from and Cathy: We had campers write in and say, "Hey, I really want to shoot videos. I really want to touch people's lives." They're at Sex Geek Summer Camp, they're inspired, they understand how they can make a difference [...]

By | 2016-01-08T09:29:26+00:00 December 11, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

I Want To Shoot Videos But I’m Running Into Resistance…

How do you face your fears and do it anyway in front of a video camera? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from and Cathy: All right, so we were talking to people that want to shoot videos because they were inspired at Sex Geek Summer Camp and want to get their message out. Reid Mihalko from Sex Geek Summer Camp and and Cathy Vartuli [...]

By | 2016-01-08T09:35:08+00:00 December 8, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

Releasing Resistance to Shooting Videos

How can you release resistance to shooting videos? With Cathy Vartuli from and Some of you wrote in and said, “How you’re having resistance to shooting the videos?” I thought I’d offer, if you want it, some tapping to help you get pass the blocks. The hamsters can get really loud and I usually notice that it get loud as when I move in toward in something that [...]

By | 2016-01-08T09:35:31+00:00 December 5, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

How Do Seniors Meet Energetic Passionate Partners?

How do people in their 50's on up meet amazing partners? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: “What advice can you give someone to a senior person wanting to meet a partner that enjoy life with?” Reid: Okay. This is Cathy Vartuli from Cathy: And Reid Mihalko from Reid: Aha! We have been seniors, it was like in high school or college. So [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:18:53+00:00 February 5, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Can Being Too Dry Cause The Condom To Tear?

Will the condom tear if you don't have enough lube? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from   Cathy: There it goes. So someone wrote in and said she is inexperienced having multiple-partner sex. She's ... Reid: She's inexperienced having multiple-partnered sex? Cathy: Yeah. So she had some questions. Reid: Multi partners, meaning more than one person in the bed? Cathy: Mm-hmm (affirmative). Reid: Excellent. Cathy: Yes, [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:43:23+00:00 January 20, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Consecutive or Concurrent Dating?

How do you like to date? And can Reid remember the word? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from     Reid: Hello everybody, it's Reid Mihalko from Cathy: And Cathy Vartuli from Reid: And we have an answer. We figured out from this other video that we're shooting about concurrent and congruent relationships, and I'm like, that's not the word. The word is consecutive. [...]

By | 2016-04-13T11:44:35+00:00 January 17, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Dealing with Insecurity and Worry: Moving Into The Fear

Do you find yourself getting insecure? Worrying if you're being obnoxious or annoying? Turn your brain on it's head... with this tip from Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from Cathy: Are you ever afraid that you're being annoying or does your insecurity come up and bite you in the butt? It can get really in your head. The more you think about it, the more you pull back [...]

By | 2016-01-11T13:13:44+00:00 November 8, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills|

When It Feels Like You’re Moving Backwards

Do you ever feel like you're losing the progress you've made? Like your moving backwards?? It isn't fun! Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from share tips and strategies for surviving the lull and getting back on track. Cathy: Do you ever feel like you take a step backwards? It can be really frustrating. For anyone who has old abuse history, sexual trauma, anything like that, that can [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:59:07+00:00 July 8, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills|