I believe all the power, insight and charisma we seek is hidden in our shame and that we can mine and transform our experiences and discover all we've been missing.

I help women in STEM, abuse survivors and any human with the courage to step forward find their voice and transform the pain and struggle into empowerment.

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COVID-19 Updates: It is very challenging to plan with the many changes around COVID-19. Please continue to check back here for updates. We will be having some virtual events and will let you know when we can schedule in-person events again. Questions? Email me at Cathy@TheIntimacyDojo.com.

New Events coming up in San Jose

(see Calendar in Right Sidebar for public events.)

Personal Growth and Adventures

We will update as COVID numbers make this a safer option.


Shame exists in many areas of our lives… If you want to dive deeper into more advanced topics, please apply here.

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What if I have feedback I want to share about the events and/or facilitators?
We welcome all kinds of feedback. We want to know where we could do better. We are committed to hearing whatever you want to share and will consider all feedback carefully.

If you’ve ever been to one of The Intimacy Dojo events, we’d love your feedback in this survey. https://theintimacydojo.com/event-survey

You can provide feedback directly by emailing Cathy@TheIntimacyDojo.com or if you would like to submit feedback anonymously, go here: https://theintimacydojo.com/feedback/