New Events coming up in San Jose

(see Calendar in Right Sidebar for public events. Some more explicit events are by application only)

Questions? See our Event FAQ!

June Events with Jet Noir!

Official Cuddle Party- with Cathy Vartuli w Jet Noir Warmup! June 29th noon to 3 pm

Sexy Negotiating Cathy Vartuli and Jet Noir June 29th 3:30 pm to 6 pm

All Gender Play Party with Jet Noir and Cathy Vartuli June 19th 7:30 to 11:30 pm


July Events with Reid

Full Body Kiss with Reid Mihalko July 11th from 7:30 tp 10:30pm

Double Feature… Sexy Negotiation and Rough Sex for Nice Folks Friday July 12th from 7:30 to midnight

Cuddle Party July 13th from noon to 3pm – Cathy Only

Energetic Sex For Pragmatists from 3:30 to 6pm

Energetic Play Party (underwear stays on) With Reid and Cathy Saturday July 13th from 7:30 to 11:30pm

Dating Your Species with Reid Mihalko Sunday July 14th noon to 3pm

How to Wow a Pussy and Please a Penis with Reid and Cathy on July 14th from 3:30pm to 6pm

Play Party with Reid and Cathy Sunday July 14th 7:30pm to 11:30pm

September Events with Monique and Peter

Official Cuddle Party- with Cathy Vartuli w Peter Petersen Warmup!

All Gender Play Party with Monique, Cathy & Peter with Squirting and Penis Pleasing Demo’s, Optional Intro Class

Official Brunch Cuddle Party- WOMEN ONLY- with Cathy Vartuli and Monique Darling

Going Deeper: Change Fears Around Sexual Self-Expression Into Confidence

All Gender Play Party II with Monique, Cathy & Peter with Energy Touch and Strap-on Demo’s, Optional Intro Class

Official Cuddle Party II

Intro to Energetic Sex Plus an Energetic Play Party w/ Cathy V, Monique D & Peter P


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