The Intimacy Dojo Blog

How To Know If You’re Moving Too Fast In a Relationship?

How To Know If You're Moving Too Fast In a Relationship? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xpizxwsBOEc Cathy: How do you know if you're moving ahead in good speed or pushing yourself a little too fast? This is Reid Mihalko for http://reidaboutsex.com/ hey   Reid: Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ and what?   Cathy: So we're just we just   Reid: Too fast in what? Tell me!   Cathy: Sorry guys. He had too much caffeine [...]

By |2017-09-19T04:52:21+00:00December 13, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

I’m Having A Hard Time Dating People I’m Interested In, What Should I Do?

I'm Having A Hard Time Dating People I'm Interested In, What Should I Do? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I4mXAczRYtM Reid: Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, I'm having a hard time dating because I get really messed up when I'm interested into someone. I'm usually okay for the first couple weeks but then, either I ended up clinging or I want to run away because. [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:44:10+00:00December 10, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

What Is Voyeurism?

What Is Voyeurism https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r8Qe_OiFAic Cathy: Reid at a recently play party you shared something about voyeurism. That I thought was really powerful I was wondering if you’d share it for the camera. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy, what is a play party? Cathy: A play party is basically an orgy. It’s a space where people can go and have sex or watch that [...]

By |2017-09-19T04:40:57+00:00December 7, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

What Do You Do If A Condom Gets Stuck Inside?

What Do You Do If A Condom Gets Stuck Inside? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jrotsEG8hxc Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, if the condom falls off inside of a woman or man can you feel it? And will it come out on its own? What do we do? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ well I have never had a condom fall off in me. I've had condoms fall [...]

By |2017-09-19T04:34:09+00:00December 4, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What To Wear In A Play Party?

What To Wear In A Play Party? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gNjCKIH2KB8   Cathy: What do I wear to a play party? This is Reid Mihalko from about http://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ Cathy: And a lot people wonder if what do they wear if they go to a play party Reid: Play party being the new-fangled lingo for an orgy basically. Cathy: Yeah and different play parties are run differently. [...]

By |2017-09-19T04:27:14+00:00December 1, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Best Places For An Orgy

Best Places For An Orgy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=osXYk8SKd9Y Cathy: Someone wrote in to you Reid and said, Hello I found out about you from reading Neil Strauss’s The Truth. I’ve thrown my own play parties before and even intended a few but I wanted to know where I can find more places. Any help would be great. I look forward to going or running in your event soon. Reid: Oh, cool! Thanks [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:45:08+00:00November 28, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Should I Bring When I Go To A Play Party?

What Should I Bring When I Go To A Play Party? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7GdUBSHvawk Cathy: What should I bring when I go to a play Party? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ What do you bring Cathy? Cathy: Uhmmm…. I usually … Reid; Wait a minute! Is a Play party an Orgy? Cathy: Yes. I was brought up to be very polite. So I almost always ask [...]

By |2017-09-19T04:15:05+00:00November 25, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Ejaculation Problem: I Can’t Orgasm From Masturbation

Ejaculation Problem: I Can't Orgasm From Masturbation https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VWqCV2Hpclc Cathy: I have a very weird lasting problem I’d love your help with.Cathy: I have a very weird lasting problem I’d love your help with. Reid: What is it Cathy? Tell me. Cathy: I have many problems with. This is from one of our viewers. Reid: What is it? tell me. Cathy: For some reason. He only Climax with dream Sex. He’s [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:45:36+00:00November 22, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

When You Are Too Tired For Sex: A Simple Solution

When You Are Too Tired For Sex: A Simple Solution https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XgFh0a2oST4 Cathy: What do you do when you have conflicting needs Like your really tired but you also like to have sex? Dan: I’d go to sleep Cathy: This is Dan Powers from http://www.beyondthebedroomevents.com/ Dan: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And it can be challenging like there I know, there's time when I'm hungry or tired or I'm horny or [...]

By |2017-09-19T03:59:01+00:00November 19, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Can You Have An Open Relationship If You Are Married?

Can You Have An Open Relationship If You Are Married? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DT24G2UmUtI Cathy: And Dan Powers from http://www.beyondthebedroomevents.com/ Cathy: Can you have an open relationship if you're married? Dan: Yes! Cathy: This is Dan Powers from http://www.beyondthebedroom.com/ Dan: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: yeah I love that people ask these questions because some people don't know. It’s like wait I heard you’re suppose to… Dan: marriage is only one [...]

By |2017-09-19T03:49:29+00:00November 16, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|