TheIntimacyDojo No Harassment Policy

What is your no harassment policy? TheIntimacyDojo is committed to offering experiences as free from harassment as we can make it regardless of gender, sexual orientation, disability, physical appearance, age, race, size, religion, nationality, or social class. We do not tolerate harassment of participants or staff in any form. Anyone violating these rules may be expelled from the event without a refund at the discretion of the organizers. We also reserve the right to [...]

By |2020-07-09T03:59:13+00:00June 30, 2020|Uncategorized|

Filling Your Tanks

Filling Your Tanks: When our tanks are empty, or we haven’t gotten needs met in a long time, it’s hard to feel grounded or to hear no! How can you fill your tanks up, and get your needs met? Just like you wouldn’t go to a fancy dinner so hungry that you start eating off everyone’s plates with your hands, you can get your tanks filled other ways! Get or [...]

By |2019-03-19T21:39:44+00:00March 19, 2019|Uncategorized|

Can A Girl Get Satisfied If The Man Didn’t Ejaculate?

Can A Girl Get Satisfied If The Man Didn't Ejaculate? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nljTTQ-RkBI Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, can a girl get satisfied if the man doesn’t ejaculate? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ and we love it when you write in. Cathy: Yeah, Thanks. Reid: And leave comments and if you're leaving them on YouTube is not your thing, you can always email Cathy@TheIntimacyDojo.com that’s [...]

By |2017-09-22T00:38:42+00:00December 31, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Uncategorized|

Can You Give Yourself Herpes if You Use Your Own Saliva as Lube?

Can You Give Yourself Herpes if You Use Your Own Saliva as Lube? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FMj0kaNFxRg Cathy: If I use my own saliva, can I give myself herpes? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: What a great question. Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com/. Cathy: So this person wrote in that they were using their own saliva as lube and they have Herpes 1, [...]

By |2017-08-28T16:16:23+00:00March 16, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma, Uncategorized|

Leading Edge Love – Sex-positive, Emotional Freedom Coach Cathy Vartuli

Hosted by Sumati Sparks Listen Now! We talk about open relationships... body image, shyness, trauma and how they influence how we are in relationships. Questions answered... 1. What is one mistake you see people make over and over when starting open relationships? 2. What got you interested in open relationships? 3. In your coaching, how do you help clients with jealousy issues? 4. What's the most important thing people need [...]

By |2018-01-11T02:31:32+00:00January 11, 2018|Uncategorized|

Is It Okay To Come In A Woman’s Mouth?

What's the protocol about coming in a woman's mouth when she's going down on you? With Elizabeth Wood and Dan Powers from http://www.BeyondTheBedroom and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKAIQgKzwQ8 Dan: Hi. One of the questions that I've gotten in the past is, is it okay to come in a woman's mouth especially the first couple dates or so? I'm Dan Powers with http://BeyondTheBedroomEvents.com/ and this is Elizabeth Wood. Elizabeth: I'm [...]

By |2017-05-08T20:49:39+00:00October 17, 2017|Uncategorized|

How Do You Handle Disappointment In The Bedroom?

Disappointment sucks. In the bedroom it can bring debilitating shame. What can you do and how can you handle it?     With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Disappointment and ponies. Video number four. This one's about disappointment in bed. I'm Reid Milhako from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Cathy Vartulli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. We are not talking about sleeping with ponies, not that we judge anybody [...]

By |2016-09-19T06:34:17+00:00September 19, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Uncategorized|

How Can You Use Internal or Female Condoms?

 Curious about how to use internal or female condoms? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   Reid: Pring! Pring! Hello? Oh yes, you have a question about putting on internal condoms or what we used to be called female condoms? Hang on! We'll shoot that video. Cathy Vartuli from Intimacy Dojo, it's for you. Cathy: Thank you, Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Wow, can we be cornier? [...]

By |2016-01-07T12:22:53+00:00January 27, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Uncategorized|

Wanting To Speak As Part of Your Business? How Do You Get Started?

Speaking engagements can help you reach more people, build credibility and refine your dialogue. How do you get started? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: How do you get speaking engagements when you're just starting out as a sex educator? Reid: You're asking me? Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com  Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. The easiest way to do it is [...]

By |2016-01-04T07:30:27+00:00November 6, 2015|Sex Geeks, Uncategorized|