Trauma

What About Sexual Abuse In Men?

What About Sexual Abuse In Men? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uRm5-mPqeL0 Cathy: What about sexual abuse in men? I’m here with Jimanekia Eborn you can find her on https://www.facebook.com/JimmyEborn/ and then Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ thanks so much for being here Jimanekia. Jimanekia: Thank you for having me. Cathy: And I think there's so little visibility that in men boys being abused or raped. And a lot of people just like “oh that's [...]

By |2017-09-22T03:14:11+00:00March 1, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|
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How Can I Overcome Dating Anxiety ?

How Can I Overcome Dating Anxiety ? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Y9EJFTdwpw Cathy: Someone wrote in and said how can I lessen of fear of dating if nothing seems to be working for me? I want to date because the more I get out, the easier it gets. But it’s hard to take a lot of losses one after the other. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: [...]

By |2017-09-19T04:56:59+00:00December 16, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|
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How To Trust Someone Again When They Cheated A Lot In The Past?

How To Trust Someone Again When They Cheated A Lot In The Past?   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AI-AaN03zQM Cathy: Someone else wrote in and said they just stared opening up their relationship and her partner just met another girl which he likes which is just great, my only problem is she has a lot of trust issues because he cheated on her in the past and she notices that she did the trust [...]

By |2018-07-20T06:03:03+00:00June 11, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|
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What Is the Difference between Being Scared and Being Endangered?

What Is the Difference between Being Scared and Being Endangered? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AskMNjMxlNE Cathy: What is the difference between being scared and being endangered? I’m with Jimanekia Eborn from http://www.SEwJim.com/ and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ and I think it’s really important to distinguish this sometimes because in our society there’s this kind of collapse where if I feel fear, either this other person is harming me or I shouldn’t do this [...]

By |2017-08-28T21:12:19+00:00April 27, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|
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Can Sexual Trauma Ruin Your Sex Life?

Can Sexual Trauma Ruin Your Sex Life?   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qRlBJ-ufCMo Jimanekia: Has your sexual trauma ruined your sex life? I’m Jimanekia Eborn with http://www.SEwJim.com/ and I’m with Cathy Vartuli with oh my God.   Cathy: http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/, No it’s okay.   Jimanekia: http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/   Cathy: Yeah. Reid forgets sometimes and we’ve done like 500 videos.   Jimanekia: I was like, I know this. http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ and so Cathy, what do you think?   [...]

By |2017-08-28T21:05:27+00:00April 24, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|
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Can You Give Yourself Herpes if You Use Your Own Saliva as Lube?

Can You Give Yourself Herpes if You Use Your Own Saliva as Lube? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FMj0kaNFxRg Cathy: If I use my own saliva, can I give myself herpes? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: What a great question. Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com/. Cathy: So this person wrote in that they were using their own saliva as lube and they have Herpes 1, [...]

By |2017-08-28T16:16:23+00:00March 16, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma, Uncategorized|
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Is It Ever Your Fault If You’re INCEL (Involuntarily Celibate)?

Should you blame yourself if you aren't ever connecting sexually? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We had a video on incels, people that are voluntarily celibate. And someone wrote in and said, white male that are incel are very pathetic, they belong in a group of men that are sought after by women. So your inability to get a decent woman is all caps [...]

By |2017-05-12T15:38:58+00:00February 2, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|
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How Do I Reclaim My Sexuality After Trauma?

If you've shut down due to trauma or traumatic experiences, how do you open up again? How can you embrace your sexuality? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, how do I go about regaining self-ownership of my body and sexual aspect after a trauma? I’m a 46 year old divorced gay man who had an incest in military in sexual [...]

By |2017-05-12T15:37:35+00:00January 31, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|
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How To Deal with People Who Say That There’s Something Wrong about You Because You’re Bigger?

If you're fat or bigger, what do you do if someone says there's something wrong with you for being larger? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in in response to a video that Ashley Man did together about being bigger and being sexual. And they said, your fatties need to recognize that you're mentally ill. You over eat because there's something about you [...]

By |2017-05-12T15:36:24+00:00January 24, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|
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Betrayal… And How Can Someone Bounce Back?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e0-CgrlvnXs Cathy: We have new comment. Hey peeps, running for a dear friend who had a classic narcissistic partner with who have been lying to her for years. A lot something major, it’s a long story. I’m looking for advice about psychological response to experiencing betrayal and the loss of abusive addictive relationship. How can someone flame of bad relationships of their self-talks than can find strength to pick up [...]

By |2017-05-12T13:21:15+00:00January 9, 2018|Collaborators, Dating, Delivery, Energy, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch, Trauma|
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