Energy

What Should I Bring When I Go To A Play Party?

What Should I Bring When I Go To A Play Party? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7GdUBSHvawk Cathy: What should I bring when I go to a play Party? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ What do you bring Cathy? Cathy: Uhmmm…. I usually … Reid; Wait a minute! Is a Play party an Orgy? Cathy: Yes. I was brought up to be very polite. So I almost always ask [...]

By |2017-09-19T04:15:05+00:00November 25, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Poly or Kink-Friendly Therapist, Where Can I Find them?

Poly or Kink-Friendly Therapist, Where Can I Find them?   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sUjviQzwvrI Cathy: How do I find a good poly or kink-friendly therapist? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And someone wrote in and said they were looking for a therapist and they weren’t sure how to find someone who is poly or kink-friendly. I think one of the first things I would do is [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:54:16+00:00August 26, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

We’re A Married Couple, How Do We Find A Threesome Partner?

We're A Married Couple, How Do We Find A Threesome Partner?   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L2PaIX-yFao Cathy: So someone wrote in and said, I just started listening to Everyone Wants to Have Better Sex with Crystal Bergen and I love it especially the threesome episode with Reid. So, cut into a chase, how does a married couple go about finding someone you could to have a threesome with? This is Reid Mihalko from [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:54:39+00:00August 23, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Am I Poly? Would Poly Work For Me?

Am I Poly? Would Poly Work For Me? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vuAvotOoEN8 Cathy: Have you ever wondered if you might be poly or poly might be good for you? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/   Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ and someone wrote in and said I would be poly but for STD’s I’m really worried about those that’s the major concern and when I wrote back and said there’s a lot [...]

By |2017-09-01T15:24:46+00:00July 23, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

She Screamed After I Put My Dick In, What Should I Do?

She Screamed After I Put My Dick In, What Should I Do? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yh0MK0hSZSM Cathy: So this might be somewhat trigerring question but I think it’s really important to answer. Someone wrote in and said I put my dick in a pussy and she screamed, what do I do when she says stop? And I think it’s so important to talk about the fact that a lot of people don’t know [...]

By |2018-07-20T06:00:56+00:00July 8, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Where Do I Go To Find Kinky Sexy Sex Geeks?

Where Do I Go To Find Kinky Sexy Sex Geeks? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VPJTwEpLlWE Cathy: Where do you find sexy, kinky, sex geeks?   Reid: Look where the tuxes are that’s where you’ll find them.   Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com   Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com my luggage got lost this morning and all I had was my suit bag which had my tux in it so were getting tuxy. [...]

By |2018-07-20T06:04:16+00:00June 5, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How To Make Sure Your Date Is Aware That You’re Not Out Poly or Kinky Because of Work or Kids

How To Make Sure Your Date Is Aware That You're Not Out Poly or Kinky Because of Work or Kids   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c62edJXqpYs Cathy: If you’re poly and you’re dating, are there good ways to make sure that people you’re dating are aware that you’re not coming out because of work or kids?   Reid: I really thought you’d say “If you’re poly and dating clap your hands” (claps his hands). [...]

By |2018-07-20T06:04:52+00:00June 2, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Is It True That Men Don’t Have To Masturbate and Their Partners Should Do It For Them?

Is It True That Men Don't Have To Masturbate and Their Partners Should Do It For Them? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uoDOCuFpDCs Cathy: In response to our video in masturbation someone wrote in and says the guy doesn’t have to masturbate his wife or girlfriend can do if or him. He should never have to jerk off if he has a woman and if he has a foot fetish, she can use her sexy [...]

By |2018-07-20T06:05:47+00:00May 30, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

When You’re On The Road, How Do You Support Your Partner Back At Home?

When You're On The Road, How Do You Support Your Partner Back At Home? You're busy traveling and doing all the things you need to do, how do you support your partner back at home? With Elizabeth Wood from http://www.BedEvents.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JfYBz3EJRvk Cathy: When you’re on the road, how do you support your partner who stuck back at home keeping the home fires burning? This is Elizabeth Wood from [...]

By |2017-08-28T21:35:28+00:00May 6, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Releasing The Feeling Of Being Tired of Carrying Other People’s Nonsense

Releasing The Feeling Of Being Tired of Carrying Other People's Nonsense https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MN6nm1rJhtY Cathy: This is Jimanekia Eborn from https://www.SEwJim.com/ and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/. I do a lot of work using emotional freedom techniques as well as a coaching on intimacy. Basically I can pressure points where we can release some of the tension and stored energies in our body, help our primitive brain or survival brain relax, talk to our cognitive [...]

By |2017-08-28T21:19:14+00:00April 30, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|