Energy

What Do You Do When You Can’t Admit Something Isn’t Working?

What Do You Do When You Can't Admit Something Isn't Working? When you get stuck, it can be really hard to stop and just admit it isn't working. What do you do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Robin Wilson Beattie from http://www.sexAbledwithRobinWB.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TNtg5WHdLDE Robin: Let me think what they’re struggling about that?   Cathy: No I’m going to tell you.   Robin: Oh yeah, that’s what I’m saying.   Cathy: [...]

By |2017-08-28T18:30:32+00:00April 15, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

When You’re Dating Someone New, Should You Sleep With Them Right Away?

When You're Dating Someone New, Should You Sleep With Them Right Away? Fuck first, or wait awhile? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Yoni Alkan from http://www.ElementsofSexuality.com, Liz Powell from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com and Caroline Carrington from http://www.JewelInTheLotusCoaching.com, with special guest, sexy librarian! @DrYoniAlkan @sexpospsych @JewelotusTantra https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-pvB5fuA_A Liz: So when you’re dating someone new, should you have sex with them first or make them wait awhile? I’m Liz Powell from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com/   Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ [...]

By |2017-08-28T18:26:16+00:00April 12, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Does Quality of Touch Matter?

Does Quality of Touch Matter? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qkPkTtDcECY Cathy: Does quality of touch matters when you’re on a date or hooking up? I’m Cathy Vartuli from from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com Yoni: I’m Yoni Alkan from http://www.ElementsofSexuality.com Liz: I’m Doctor Liz from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com Caroline: I’m Caroline Carrington from http://www.JewelInTheLotusCoaching.com Sexy Librarian: I’m also the talking librarian who is off screen. Liz: She’s a sexy librarian. Cathy: Yes. Caroline: Sexy, Sparkly librarian. Liz: So sparkly. So [...]

By |2017-08-28T18:03:02+00:00April 3, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

I Can’t Orgasm With A Condom On – Help!

I Can't Orgasm With A Condom On - Help! Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KZRdswttC_s&feature=youtu.be   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said I’m really, I’ve never been able to cum while wearing a condom during sex. I’m trying to be safer but I feel like it’s almost like a waste of time. I’ve tried masturbating with a condom too, nothing works. I don’t orgasm with a condom [...]

By |2017-08-28T16:01:39+00:00March 13, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do You Balance Multiple Lovers In Bed?

How Do You Balance Multiple Lovers In Bed? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a5gW8sfdc40&feature=youtu.be Cathy: So someone wrote in and asked what are some techniques and ways I can please multiple partners if I’m a swinger or a poly? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Get them other lovers and partners. Cathy: I think they mean in the moment you have multiple lovers [...]

By |2017-08-28T15:53:52+00:00March 10, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do I Get My Lover Have Sex With Me Again?

What do you do if your partner or lover doesn't want to have sex? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So someone wrote in and said you talked about how to get my wife to have sex with me again program, has it been released yet? And can you tell us how to get this to work? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: Cathy [...]

By |2017-05-12T15:41:21+00:00February 8, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch|

Is It Ever Your Fault If You’re INCEL (Involuntarily Celibate)?

Should you blame yourself if you aren't ever connecting sexually? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We had a video on incels, people that are voluntarily celibate. And someone wrote in and said, white male that are incel are very pathetic, they belong in a group of men that are sought after by women. So your inability to get a decent woman is all caps [...]

By |2017-05-12T15:38:58+00:00February 2, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

How Do I Reclaim My Sexuality After Trauma?

If you've shut down due to trauma or traumatic experiences, how do you open up again? How can you embrace your sexuality? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, how do I go about regaining self-ownership of my body and sexual aspect after a trauma? I’m a 46 year old divorced gay man who had an incest in military in sexual [...]

By |2017-05-12T15:37:35+00:00January 31, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

How To Deal with People Who Say That There’s Something Wrong about You Because You’re Bigger?

If you're fat or bigger, what do you do if someone says there's something wrong with you for being larger? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in in response to a video that Ashley Man did together about being bigger and being sexual. And they said, your fatties need to recognize that you're mentally ill. You over eat because there's something about you [...]

By |2017-05-12T15:36:24+00:00January 24, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

How Do You Deal With Repeated Minor Putdowns?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LOAbTeO5kr8 Cathy: At camp, Sex Geek Summer Camp which Reid respond amazing event there were lot of talks about people were talking about micro aggressions were and how to make people feel valued and welcomed. I don’t meddle a lot or talked to that really well. And one question we have is what is the difference about micro aggression and genuine expression for instance if one person always says you [...]