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Wound Up After A Sexual Encounter? Can’t Sleep?

Are you finding hard to sleep after a sexual encounter? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So what do you do… Reid: Tada!! Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Never spin around. That’s an intro. Cathy: Would you like to spin back right now? Reid: No, I’ll do it at the end. What are we talking about? Cathy: Someone wrote in [...]

By |2017-05-03T01:40:04+00:00June 10, 2017|Flirting, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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If You’re Enthusiastic Does That Mean You Aren’t Cool?

How cool and enthusiastic can you be? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So this is a little bit of a vulnerable discussion about being a cool kid and how enthusiastic to be. This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Yeah! Cathy: He’s very enthusiastic. Reid: And very cool. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Playin’ it… Cathy: So, I’ve been moved out to [inaudible 00:00:24]. [...]

By |2017-05-03T01:13:37+00:00June 7, 2017|Dating, Energy|
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Bored On A Date? What Do You Do?

How would you tell your date that you are bored? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you if your date bores you? Reid: Go on a second date! No! Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And what would you do if your date bored you? Reid: I would say, “This is been a lovely evening…” Cathy: [...]

By |2017-05-03T00:43:22+00:00June 4, 2017|Dating, Flirting|
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Feel Sorry For Someone But Just Not Into Dating Them?

How would you break bad news to someone? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   Cathy: So we just did a video about how to tell someone your dating that you’re just not into them. Now how do you do that when they might have something either you feel sorry for them about or they’re struggling with or either kind of using that or you’re just [...]

By |2017-05-03T00:28:40+00:00June 1, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|
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SG3: What Kind Of Business Entity Should You Have?

What kind of business do you need? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Hello sex geeks! It’s the sex geek T-shirt. I’m Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/. Founder of http://www.sexgeeksummercamp.com/ Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ Reid: Also, employed by a secret corporation that we cannot name. Cathy: Yes Reid: Somewhere in San Jose. Cathy: Not far from here as a matter of fact. Reid: Maybe [...]

By |2017-05-03T00:14:51+00:00May 29, 2017|Sex Geeks|
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How Can You Lead From Intention Vs Expectation?

How can you set intentions while giving space for audience's needs and direction? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   Reid: Yeah. Cathy: Talking about today about leading from intention versus expectation. How to listen to the room and hold space for it. Reid: That sounds like a facilitator question. Oh, my goodness! That's why I wear my Sex Geek Summer Camp, because we're talking about [...]

By |2017-05-02T23:49:06+00:00May 26, 2017|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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If You Start Oral Sex… Do You Have To Finish?

Do you really have to finish doing blow job until they come? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "If you start a blow job or cunnilingus, don't you have to finish?" Like, when we're talking about how you could say you we're done with stuff. They're like, "Don't you have to finish, wait, go until they cum? This is Reid [...]

By |2017-05-23T16:47:42+00:00May 23, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|
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Partner Not Wanting To Sleep With You: Part IV

What do you do if you realize that their desire is already gone? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: You've done your thing, and your partner is still not wanting to sleep with you, not wanting to connect that way. What do you do? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. What would you do? Cathy: I've worked with a lot [...]

By |2017-05-02T23:14:45+00:00May 20, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|
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Your Partner Doesn’t Want To Sleep With You… What Do You Do?

What do you do if your partner isn't interested in having sex with you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: You got the memo, too. Purple shirt day. Cathy: What do you do when your partner doesn't want to sleep with you? Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  It can be a really challenging thing, and you just did a great call [...]

By |2017-05-02T21:48:15+00:00May 11, 2017|Dating, Relationship Skills|
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Passive Aggressive Friends And What You Can Do About Them…

What should you do if your friend won't go directly to you to talk about issues and won't let you know what he wants and instead, he gets passive aggressive? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What if you have a friend that you really care about who sometimes gets a little passive aggressive. Reid: Whatever.. Cathy: And not so suddenly pulls you down. Reid: Way to go. [...]

By |2017-05-02T18:01:01+00:00May 8, 2017|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|
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