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Consecutive or Concurrent Dating?

How do you like to date? And can Reid remember the word? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.     Reid: Hello everybody, it's Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: And Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: And we have an answer. We figured out from this other video that we're shooting about concurrent and congruent relationships, and I'm like, that's not the word. The word is consecutive. [...]

By |2016-04-13T11:44:35+00:00January 17, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Can You Tell When The Condom Breaks During Intercourse?

Can you feel it when the condom breaks or tears during intercourse? What can you pay attention to? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   Cathy: Can a man feel if a condom tears while he's having intercourse? One of our readers, or watchers, wrote in and asked us. This is Reid Mihalko for http://ReidAboutSex.com with his coffee. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli, the coffee-less Cathy [...]

By |2016-01-07T08:44:44+00:00January 14, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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If You Giggle When You’re Nervous, How Do You Let People Know You’re Not Flirting?

Do you giggle and laugh when you feel nervous? Do people think you're flirting? What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We had someone write in and say that … well she’s really shy, she tends to smile and laugh when people flirt with her. Reid: We switched sides. That’s going to screw everybody up. Cathy: Yeah. Reid: What were you saying? [...]

By |2016-06-23T11:57:19+00:00January 11, 2016|Dating, Flirting|
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Herpes and Masturbation

Can you get Herpes from masturbation? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Can you get herpes just by masturbating? Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: The answer is technically no. Cathy: No. Reid: Yeah. Now, if you were touching somebody else’s genitals, or their face, or wherever they were having herpes outbreak, and then you took that hand [...]

By |2016-01-07T08:51:24+00:00January 8, 2016|Sex Geeks|
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Parental Care and Child Care…How Do I Date?

Does Online Dating save time? I'm so busy! With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: One of you wrote in, "Help. I'm sandwiched between my teens, my elderly father, and being super busy at work. I'm looking for a great relationship and an awesome lover. Is online the way to go? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you [...]

By |2016-01-08T12:54:27+00:00January 5, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills|
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I Fell Out Of Love… Now What Do I Do?

What do you do if you aren't in love and you want to be friends? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, "I just broke up with my girlfriend. She said I think you're making a big mistake. I just don't like her as much as she likes me and I feel bad about it. We were together [...]

By |2016-01-05T10:09:33+00:00January 2, 2016|Relationship Skills|
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How Can You Support Your Partner Through Low-Self-Esteem When They Don’t Know What To Ask For?

How can you help partner get their needs met and still take care of yourself? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We love your comments and questions. Thank you so much. Here’s one from one of our viewers. Question; if my partner often gets low self-esteem, how can I support them in identifying what they need if they don’t know. Sometimes neither of us know [...]

By |2016-01-05T08:06:20+00:00December 30, 2015|Relationship Skills|
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Want To Let Someone Know You’re In An Open Relationship?

Can you graciously and flirtatiously let someone know you're in an open relationship? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: How do you let someone know graciously and flirtatiously that you might be ... that you are in an open relationship and that you might be interested in them? Reid: I don't know. Cathy: Oh hey! Reid: I'm in an open relationship, how about you? Cathy: [...]

By |2016-01-05T08:08:15+00:00December 27, 2015|Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Have You Been Rejected… And Once You Changed They’re Chasing You?

It hurts to be rejected, and then have that person change their mind when you're love weight or had some other success....With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: One of our amazing Sex Geeky viewers wrote in that they have recently been working and improving ... and kicking ass in a particular area of their business and they've also been losing some weight. And they're receiving [...]

By |2016-01-08T12:23:21+00:00December 24, 2015|Dating, Flirting|
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How Do You Deal When Someone Shames You For Being A Sex Educator?

When society shames you for teaching "bad" things or expects you to be available sexually to everyone, what do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Sex educator shame, what is it? Hi. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And this is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: I'm holding the mic here to see if it sounds better. Cathy: He's good with that [...]

By |2016-01-04T06:31:07+00:00December 21, 2015|Sex Geeks, Shame|
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