Flirting

Someone Giving You A Lot Of Energetic Attention? Not So Comfortable?

What do you do when someone's giving you a lot of energetic attention in ways that may or may not be comfortable? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you do when someone's giving you a lot of energetic attention in ways that may or may not be comfortable? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: There [...]

By |2016-01-05T08:51:23+00:00July 14, 2015|Flirting|
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How Can I Receive Compliments Better?

Receiving compliments can be a challenge. How can you make it easier to accept compliments? A lot of people, especially women, are taught not to receive them very well. We're taught that if we say "Oh, thank you," that that will be kind of prideful or selfish - that we should not receive compliments. But it does hurt when you say something genuine to someone and they reject it. Join [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:18:16+00:00May 13, 2015|Body Image, Flirting, Shame|
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How Can You Have Good Boundaries When You’re Being Goofy?

People like being playful and goofy, but they are not necessarily being as careful about boundaries. State your boundaries so that you can be even more playful. It's not the other way around. With boundaries you can make people feel safer, and they will play back with you. Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com have to say about how you can have good boundaries when you're [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:33:31+00:00May 7, 2015|Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Feeling Vulnerable Saying “I Love You”?

Do you ever wonder why is it so hard to say "I love you" and how can you get better at it? And, why do people make a war out of who says it first? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share how to say "I love you" easier. Cathy: We had a question from someone who watched our video on how to know [...]

By |2016-01-05T06:11:52+00:00April 28, 2015|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Shame|
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I Like To Flirt…But I Don’t Want Them To Take It As Permission To Jump!

When you flirt does the other person crank up the heat to an 11 as a consequence? Problem sometimes occurs when you tell the other person that you're flirting with, that you're a shy, slow, tentative person, but it seems to come across: "I hereby encourage you to channel Pepe Le Pew and ignore all boundaries, starting now." What can you do? Relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com are going to share [...]

By |2016-01-04T12:51:31+00:00April 1, 2015|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|
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I’m Always The Cool Girl Friend… Never the Girlfriend, How Do I Get Out There?

Are you always the cool girl friend and never the cool girlfriend? Do you hate the idea of being shut down? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about how you can deal with that fear of being shut down. Cathy: We shot a video a while ago about being stuck in the friend zone. Reid: It's a Kenny Loggins song, right? Cathy: It's [...]

By |2016-01-05T10:06:01+00:00March 29, 2015|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Shame|
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Stuck In The Friend Zone

Cathy: Some people end up being friends with everyone they're interested with romantically. It doesn't ever quite transition to romantic. They end up being buddies. That can be really frustrating. Reid: The friend zone. Cathy: Yes. It can be very frustrating.  What would you do, Reid Mihalko, from http://wwwReidAboutSex.com? Reid: I don't know, Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. What would I do? What a weird segue. Being stuck in the friend zone. [...]

By |2016-01-06T09:51:24+00:00August 18, 2014|Dating, Flirting|
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Cathy on Tuning

Reid: Hi this is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: You use this phrase "tuning" to somebody. Please explain for our viewers. Your esoteric languaging. Cathy: Yes, OK. Well, there's two levels you can do that at: 1) you can communicate with your partner and understand what ... you have them explain verbally what they would like to do. Reid: Mm-hmm. Cathy: What turns them on, what stimulates them. And so you [...]

By |2016-01-06T10:07:34+00:00August 4, 2014|Flirting, Relationship Skills|
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Being Attracted To Unavailable and Distant People

Cathy: Do you ever find that you're getting attracted, you find yourself attracted to people that are distant or emotionally unavailable? That can be a pattern that some people can fond to. And if you can just hit them upside the head it would make you feel better. Reid: Yeah, just do that. Next video please. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Reid, what can someone do [...]

By |2016-01-06T08:27:59+00:00August 1, 2014|Dating, Flirting|
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How Can You Tease and Build Anticipation?

Would you like to be better at teasing and building anticipation? It can make everything from flirting to marketing more fun! Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com share. Cathy:  Would you like to be better at teasing and building anticipation? Reid:  Hm? What? Yes. Yes! I want to be better at that. Cathy:  This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com Reid:  And this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy:  [...]

By |2016-01-06T07:56:59+00:00July 14, 2014|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Touch|
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