Relationship Skills

Cyber Flirting Basics… What To Do

How do people cyber flirt? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cyber flirting. How do you do it? I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Well this is fun for me because Cathy usually picks all the questions because Cathy is better than this than I am and now I have a topic. We have different dating styles… Cathy: Well because you're an [...]

By |2017-05-03T03:54:12+00:00July 1, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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How Do You Know When Its Safe To Kiss Someone If You Have Herpes?

Is it safe to kiss someone if you have Herpes? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “If you have HSV-1 or Herpes 1, how do you know when to kiss again?” That’s really a pointy question. If you found out and diagnosed with something, how do you know when you’re safe? How do you know when you can reach out and reconnect [...]

By |2017-05-03T03:31:05+00:00June 28, 2017|Flirting, Relationship Skills, Shame|
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How Do You Tell Someone That You’re Just Not That Into Them?

What would you do when you realize you just want to be friends? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote and said, “I recently parted with a female over the New Year’s holidays but now she’s obviously more into me that I am into her. She’s dropping the L word after only a week.” Reid: Latte! I’m Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy [...]

By |2017-05-03T02:37:28+00:00June 19, 2017|Dating, Relationship Skills|
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How Do I Know If My Rules Are Reasonable In My Poly Relationship?

What is "reasonable" to ask for in a relationship? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Hi Reid and Cathy. I really need some advice and someone to tell me if the rule I have in my poly relationship is reasonable or not. My primary partner has started dating someone else for the first time in 6 years. I support her 100%. I have [...]

By |2017-05-03T02:15:08+00:00June 16, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|
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If You Had To Exit A Business Agreement, How Would You Do It?

How do you create exit strategies for business? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Do you have exit strategies for your business? Reid: How do you escape!? Cathy: Is that what you're trying to do? Reid: Escape! Cathy: It kind of looks like you might be having- Reid: I'm like in a straitjacket. My business is a straitjacket! How do I escape!? Cathy: This is Reid [...]

By |2017-05-03T02:01:49+00:00June 13, 2017|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Feel Sorry For Someone But Just Not Into Dating Them?

How would you break bad news to someone? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   Cathy: So we just did a video about how to tell someone your dating that you’re just not into them. Now how do you do that when they might have something either you feel sorry for them about or they’re struggling with or either kind of using that or you’re just [...]

By |2017-05-03T00:28:40+00:00June 1, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|
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How Can You Lead From Intention Vs Expectation?

How can you set intentions while giving space for audience's needs and direction? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   Reid: Yeah. Cathy: Talking about today about leading from intention versus expectation. How to listen to the room and hold space for it. Reid: That sounds like a facilitator question. Oh, my goodness! That's why I wear my Sex Geek Summer Camp, because we're talking about [...]

By |2017-05-02T23:49:06+00:00May 26, 2017|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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If You Start Oral Sex… Do You Have To Finish?

Do you really have to finish doing blow job until they come? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "If you start a blow job or cunnilingus, don't you have to finish?" Like, when we're talking about how you could say you we're done with stuff. They're like, "Don't you have to finish, wait, go until they cum? This is Reid [...]

By |2017-05-23T16:47:42+00:00May 23, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|
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Partner Not Wanting To Sleep With You: Part IV

What do you do if you realize that their desire is already gone? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: You've done your thing, and your partner is still not wanting to sleep with you, not wanting to connect that way. What do you do? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. What would you do? Cathy: I've worked with a lot [...]

By |2017-05-02T23:14:45+00:00May 20, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|
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Your Partner Doesn’t Want To Sleep With You… What Do You Do?

What do you do if your partner isn't interested in having sex with you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: You got the memo, too. Purple shirt day. Cathy: What do you do when your partner doesn't want to sleep with you? Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  It can be a really challenging thing, and you just did a great call [...]

By |2017-05-02T21:48:15+00:00May 11, 2017|Dating, Relationship Skills|
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