Relationship Skills

My Partner Is Horrible At Reframing Fighting… I Want To Give Up!

Is your partner horrible at reframing fighting? Do you get to the point where you just give up because you don’t care? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to learn how to reframe fighting and fight better. Cathy: In our video about reframing fighting, which I really enjoyed doing I think it's really useful information. Someone wrote: "Oh my god. [...]

By |2016-01-05T06:06:46+00:00June 23, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Fighting Over The Same Silly Thing… Over And Over

Do you have the same conflict coming up over and over? What can you do? Tips and ideas with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: It's Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: And Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: OK, so Cathy are you going to try to put the camera over here and try to film us both at the same time. Cathy: I will do my [...]

By |2016-01-05T06:11:05+00:00June 17, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Handling Disappointment Can Be Challenging…Unless You Know How!

A simple tip on dealing with Disappointment with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We often get disappointed in life, and knowing how to handle that disappointment can make the difference between moving forward much more easily and feeling devastated. This is- Reid: (Blows nose loudly) Cathy: I feel very disappointed in my shirt right now. Reid: Acting. That was great. I'm an acting teacher. I'm [...]

By |2016-01-04T06:00:06+00:00June 14, 2015|Relationship Skills|

I Want Commitment, My Partner Doesn’t… What Do I Do?

What does commitment mean to you? Ideas and tips with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Road ballads, ladies and gentlemen, that take us into relationship advice. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: I'm driving. Cathy: We had someone write in and say, "Why won't my boyfriend commit? He says he loves me and I'm the kind of [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:09:38+00:00June 8, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Is Hesitation An Invitation For Further Persuasion?

If someone hesitates when answering a question should you jump in and urge them to say yes? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Is hesitation an invitation for further persuasion? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: And this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: I'm so glad you remember who I am. Reid: Thanks Cathy. Cathy: In our society, it is often seen that [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:13:37+00:00June 5, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Overanalyzing And Not Taking Action

Its easy to get in your head, especially when you're trying something new. Ideas with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Road trip advice from Cathy Vartuli at http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: And Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: All right what's the question today Cathy? Cathy: We had someone write in and say that she loves our advice and she wants to follow it but she's finding herself [...]

By |2016-04-12T23:10:49+00:00May 30, 2015|Relationship Skills|

What If I’m Poly But My Friends and Co-Workers Don’t Know?

I'm afraid they'll think I'm cheating if they see me out on a date. What to do with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Road trip YouTube videos. What are we talking about today Cathy Vartuli of the Intimacy Dojo? Cathy: Dot com. Reid: Dot com. Cathy: And Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. We're talking about poly. Someone wrote in and said, "I'm poly, but I'm afraid [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:14:42+00:00May 21, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What If You Like Someone Who Doesn’t Like You Back?

If you want someone, you're attracted, and they say no... what can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is a really good video that you picked. If you missed the one before it this is still good, but the one before it whoa! Cathy: When you’re attracted or aroused towards someone and they don’t reciprocate how do you handle that and how [...]

By |2016-01-05T08:31:42+00:00May 19, 2015|Relationship Skills|

How Can I Know When To Stop In Bed?

Do you know when to stop? Some women want to stop when they have an orgasm, and some women are multi-orgasmic, or just want to keep enjoying. Some men, too. Having a discussion with your partner about it can be really powerful. There's ways that you can set up agreements ahead of time. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about when to [...]

By |2016-01-04T12:47:14+00:00May 16, 2015|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Can I Share My STI / STD Test Results With My Partner?

How to make it seem normal to talk about STI testing which isn't in our society? Talking about things with your partner before you do them, can soften the blow. You don't want it to come as a surprise. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to tell your partner about your STI/STD results. Cathy: One of our listeners wrote in and said she [...]

By |2016-01-05T06:12:12+00:00May 10, 2015|Relationship Skills|
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