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Collaboration Tips and Pointers

Collaboration can let us get more done, quicker, and add more value. But how do you find the people you want to collaborate with? Kate McCombs from http://www.SexGeekdom.com, Ashley Manta from http://www.AshleyManta.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com share tips and their experiences. Cathy: We're talking about collaboration and how to identify people that would be really fun to work with, play with, create with. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com  Kate: [...]

By |2016-09-22T15:04:35+00:00October 28, 2016|Collaborators, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Afraid of Discussing Sex? What If You Have a Sex-Positive Business?

How can you be empowered about discussing sex when you feel frightened and ashamed to talk about sex in public? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, and Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com. Cathy: What if you're ashamed to use the word sex or talk about intimacy? What if you're afraid of it? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: I'm Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com.  Cathy: Thank you for sharing this. I went through [...]

By |2016-09-22T15:03:44+00:00October 25, 2016|Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|
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What If You Want To Change The Level of Connection in A Relationship?

Been Hanging out with someone and want to not spend the same amount of time and intimacy with them? What do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com. Andi: That's really interesting, but then what happens if say you have had a connection with someone in the past, but right now you're just totally overbooked? You have so many amazing things happening in your life that [...]

By |2016-09-22T15:02:51+00:00October 22, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Balancing Corporate Job and Sex Positive Business? How Do You Do It?

It can be a challenge to balance time and money when you have a corporate job AND are trying to grow your sex-positive business. How do you do it? Learn how with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Hello, it's Reid Mihalko, creator of Sex Geek Summer Camp. I'm wearing the Sex Geek Summer Camp t-shirt which means Cathy Vartuli from The Intimacy Dojo [...]

By |2016-09-22T15:01:51+00:00October 19, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Is There A Way To Make Asking For Payment Easier? Do You Negotiate?

Handling money can be challenging! How do you discuss money with clients or prospective clients and still sound confident and professional? How can it be easy? With Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “How do I ask for payments with ease? Should I negotiate? What do I do?” Reid: I just send them that little clip from Jerry Maguire. Show [...]

By |2016-09-22T15:00:53+00:00October 16, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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How Can I Make My Meetup Group More Inclusive and Diverse?

How can I make my group more inviting to people with different backgrounds, incomes, ages, races, and perspectives? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone who runs a polyamory group wrote in and said, "I just started this group but it's mostly Caucasian people with money, how do I attract people..." Reid: That idea is again younger people. Cathy: Younger, yeah. How do I attract [...]

By |2016-09-22T14:59:48+00:00October 13, 2016|Collaborators, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Jealousy in Polyamorous Relationships: Examples and Stories

Wanting to handle jealousy better? What are examples of jealousy in poly relationships? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked about jealousy in a polyamorous relationship and was asking if we had some stories we could share that would help bring it down to a real level, like a more practical experiential level.  Reid: And Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com has a [...]

By |2016-09-22T14:57:07+00:00October 10, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Jealousy and the Law of Attraction

How does understanding jealousy can help you attract more of what you want in your life? Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.ThrivingNow.com (and founder of http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com) discuss how understanding jealousy can help you attract more of what you want in your life. Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://ThrivingNow.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. If you saw the first video, we were talking about how [...]

By |2016-09-19T14:36:36+00:00October 7, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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How Can Understanding Jealousy Give You More Confidence?

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.ThrivingNow.com (and founder of http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com) discuss how understanding jealousy can give you more confidence. Cathy: Good evening, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://ThrivingNow.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. We're going to be talking about jealousy today. Reid: The green-eyed beast. Cathy: We all have jealousy and our society does not teach us how to deal with it well, most of [...]

By |2016-09-19T14:33:29+00:00October 4, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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When Can Disappointment and Grief Be Triggered By Childhood Experiences?

Sometimes emotional pain can hit us out of the blue... And seem way out of line with the intensity we might expect. Sometimes that's because the disappointment is resonating with something from your childhood. What do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: Dealing with the grief of disappointment. How do you do it? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: This [...]

By |2016-09-19T14:31:11+00:00October 1, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame|
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