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I Want Commitment, My Partner Doesn’t… What Do I Do?

What does commitment mean to you? Ideas and tips with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Road ballads, ladies and gentlemen, that take us into relationship advice. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: I'm driving. Cathy: We had someone write in and say, "Why won't my boyfriend commit? He says he loves me and I'm the kind of [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:09:38+00:00June 8, 2015|Relationship Skills|
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Is Hesitation An Invitation For Further Persuasion?

If someone hesitates when answering a question should you jump in and urge them to say yes? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Is hesitation an invitation for further persuasion? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: And this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: I'm so glad you remember who I am. Reid: Thanks Cathy. Cathy: In our society, it is often seen that [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:13:37+00:00June 5, 2015|Relationship Skills|
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Is Other People’s Attraction Or Arousal Your Problem?

When are other people's feelings your responsibility? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Oh, this is going to be a good one. You've picked the right video. Cathy: When is someone else's attraction or arousal your problem? Or is it ever? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. We don't even know what we're going to say in this video other [...]

By |2016-01-05T07:34:33+00:00June 2, 2015|Sex Geeks|
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Overanalyzing And Not Taking Action

Its easy to get in your head, especially when you're trying something new. Ideas with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Road trip advice from Cathy Vartuli at http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: And Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: All right what's the question today Cathy? Cathy: We had someone write in and say that she loves our advice and she wants to follow it but she's finding herself [...]

By |2016-04-12T23:10:49+00:00May 30, 2015|Relationship Skills|
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Self Soothing When You’re Stressed!

It can be hard to sooth yourself or release stress. Sometimes the small (and goofy) things can make a big difference. Join the ever humorous Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share their secrets. Reid: Do you self s- What? Cathy: Self soothe. Reid: Self soothe. What are your practices for making yourself unstress? Cathy: It's a really important topic because a lot of people [...]

By |2016-01-05T07:53:32+00:00May 27, 2015|Energy|
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What Gets You Aroused?

Getting turned on... Getting horney... Getting Aroused or Attracted... what does it mean and how do you navigate it? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What gets you aroused? What experiences and activities and people get you aroused? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: She's a little bit scared. Reid: And I'm a little bit aroused. Oh, [...]

By |2016-01-04T12:44:30+00:00May 24, 2015|Sex Geeks|
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What If I’m Poly But My Friends and Co-Workers Don’t Know?

I'm afraid they'll think I'm cheating if they see me out on a date. What to do with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Road trip YouTube videos. What are we talking about today Cathy Vartuli of the Intimacy Dojo? Cathy: Dot com. Reid: Dot com. Cathy: And Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. We're talking about poly. Someone wrote in and said, "I'm poly, but I'm afraid [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:14:42+00:00May 21, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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What If You Like Someone Who Doesn’t Like You Back?

If you want someone, you're attracted, and they say no... what can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is a really good video that you picked. If you missed the one before it this is still good, but the one before it whoa! Cathy: When you’re attracted or aroused towards someone and they don’t reciprocate how do you handle that and how [...]

By |2016-01-05T08:31:42+00:00May 19, 2015|Relationship Skills|
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How Can I Know When To Stop In Bed?

Do you know when to stop? Some women want to stop when they have an orgasm, and some women are multi-orgasmic, or just want to keep enjoying. Some men, too. Having a discussion with your partner about it can be really powerful. There's ways that you can set up agreements ahead of time. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about when to [...]

By |2016-01-04T12:47:14+00:00May 16, 2015|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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How Can I Receive Compliments Better?

Receiving compliments can be a challenge. How can you make it easier to accept compliments? A lot of people, especially women, are taught not to receive them very well. We're taught that if we say "Oh, thank you," that that will be kind of prideful or selfish - that we should not receive compliments. But it does hurt when you say something genuine to someone and they reject it. Join [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:18:16+00:00May 13, 2015|Body Image, Flirting, Shame|
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