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How Can I Share My STI / STD Test Results With My Partner?

How to make it seem normal to talk about STI testing which isn't in our society? Talking about things with your partner before you do them, can soften the blow. You don't want it to come as a surprise. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to tell your partner about your STI/STD results. Cathy: One of our listeners wrote in and said she [...]

By |2016-01-05T06:12:12+00:00May 10, 2015|Relationship Skills|
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How Can You Have Good Boundaries When You’re Being Goofy?

People like being playful and goofy, but they are not necessarily being as careful about boundaries. State your boundaries so that you can be even more playful. It's not the other way around. With boundaries you can make people feel safer, and they will play back with you. Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com have to say about how you can have good boundaries when you're [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:33:31+00:00May 7, 2015|Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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How Do You Avoid Dependency In A Relationship?

We’re all taught that we should avoid dependency in a relationship, that codependency is bad. What can you do to avoid that? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share more about this topic. Cathy: We're all taught that we should avoid dependency in a relationship, that it's bad, codependency is bad. What can you do to avoid that? This is Reid Mihalko [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:38:14+00:00May 4, 2015|Dating, Energy, Relationship Skills|
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Finding A Balance: Self-Expression and Helping Others Feel Comfortable

How to find a balance where you're not offending? Some people are hard to read so you don't always know, if you've offended people. Finding that safe balance  can be a challenge. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about how to find a balance between self-expression and helping others feel comfortable. Cathy: I had shared in a video how I don't like to [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:42:01+00:00May 1, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills|
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Feeling Vulnerable Saying “I Love You”?

Do you ever wonder why is it so hard to say "I love you" and how can you get better at it? And, why do people make a war out of who says it first? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share how to say "I love you" easier. Cathy: We had a question from someone who watched our video on how to know [...]

By |2016-01-05T06:11:52+00:00April 28, 2015|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Shame|
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Is My Partner A Good Fit For Me?

How do you know if someone is a good fit for you or not? Is it the circumstances you're in right now or are they just not a good fit? The main thing is when you're thinking about is this the tough time - has the relationship always been a tough time or are you just noticing that it's tougher than usual? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:43:55+00:00April 25, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills|
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Mismatched or Different Sex Drives in a Relationship

When we're talking about issues of libido, we have to ask ourselves, if there've been any recent changes in ourselves, your lovers' lives that could be the cause of the decreased libido. The second thing to start looking at, then, is there something that's going on between you two relationship wise that you don't have matching libidos? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about [...]

By |2016-01-04T12:49:18+00:00April 22, 2015|Dating, Energy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|
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Not Meeting People You Want To Date?

Do think you're not meeting anyone you want to date, and that you are attracted to? Are you wondering if it's you? Do you fear that you're never going to meet anybody? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to start meeting new people that you maybe would want to date. Cathy: Another person wrote in and said, "I just don't seem to be meeting anyone I [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:47:12+00:00April 19, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills|
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How Can We Rebuild Trust In Our Relationship?

How do you rebuild trust in your relationship? What can you do, if you have a lot of struggle over time and you're just not feeling really easy and trusting with each other. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and find out how to bring back trust in your relationship. Cathy: One of our listeners wrote in and said, "How do I rebuild trust in my relationship? We've [...]

By |2016-01-05T06:12:04+00:00April 16, 2015|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|
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Conflicts Around Money

What to do, if one person wants to save and budget and the other person, someone who is a lot more free thinking about money, doesn't want to budget or plan? That can cause a lot of conflict in a relationship, because one is a saver, and other is a spender. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways how to solve conflicts around [...]

By |2016-04-13T09:12:58+00:00April 13, 2015|Relationship Skills|
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