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Question: I Heard That Anal Sex Is Bad For You…

Some say that the anus is not meant for receiving penetration and that having anal sex would lead to incontinence were you wouldn't be able to refrain from pulling yourself. Is that true? Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com have to say about anal sex. Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said that as a pre-med student in medical science field that they had been [...]

By |2016-01-04T12:56:09+00:00March 11, 2015|Sex Geeks|
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Tips to Change Your Mental and Emotional State

You're on your way home from work and you're really frustrated. It's a really special night. You really want to be there for your partner and yet, you have road rage. What do you do? How do you change your focus and your state? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to change your mental and emotional state. Cathy: You're on your [...]

By |2016-01-06T09:43:17+00:00March 8, 2015|Relationship Skills|
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Tried Something New and Hated It?? Your Partner Wants To Do It Again?!

What do you do if you tried something with your partner, and you didn't enjoy it at all. You also don't have the desire to do it again, and your partner won't let it go.  Something like this might happen in the bedroom or in the relationship in general. Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com have to say about that. Cathy: What do you do if you tried [...]

By |2016-01-05T07:50:21+00:00March 5, 2015|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Want To De-Escalate A Relationship? How Do You Slow Thing Down?

If you're hanging out with someone and you're both using skill sets that create warmth and connection, it's really easy to get deeper than you first planned. In these kind of moments it's better not to just dump the relationship and run if you can help it. It is good to know where the breaks are at all times. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share what to [...]

By |2016-04-13T08:15:27+00:00March 2, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills|
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What Do You Do If You Lied And Don’t Know How To Clean It Up?

What do you do if you lied? You blurted out a lie without meaning to and then you're afraid to take it back and you're not really sure there's safe space to do so. What can you do? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share thoughts about how to clean up your lie. Cathy: Another viewer wrote in and said what do you [...]

By |2016-01-06T09:46:23+00:00February 27, 2015|Relationship Skills|
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When Does Taking Care Of Yourself Become Selfish or Hedonism?

Hedonism has gotten a bad slant, like people use the word to mean something negative. But looking for pleasure or happiness is not necessarily a bad thing. You need to be selfish in life - you actually need to take care of yourself first. Hear relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com talk about when does taking care of yourself drop into selfishness or hedonism. Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked, [...]

By |2015-12-23T12:33:20+00:00February 24, 2015|Body Image, Energy, Relationship Skills|
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Cuddle Party 10th Anniversary

10 years ago, Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com was Reid Mihalko from http://CuddleParty.com and it was Cuddle Party's 10th Anniversary on February 28th 2014. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share memories. Reid: Hi, I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: 10 years ago, I was Reid Mihalko from http://CuddleParty.com and it was Cuddle Party's 10th Anniversary on February [...]

By |2015-12-23T10:45:34+00:00February 21, 2015|Event|
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When To Get In The Mood and When To Say No

What do you do when you're not in the mood for sex and your partner is? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to get yourself in the mood and when to say no. Cathy: What do you do when you're not in the mood and your partner is? Reid: In the mood for what? Cathy: Sex. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from [...]

By |2016-01-06T09:50:15+00:00February 18, 2015|Energy, Sex Geeks|
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Releasing Body Shame So You Can Be Sexy At Any Weight

Shame isn't sexy. And its almost impossible to feel confident and desirable when you're avoiding and hiding parts of yourself. The truth is most of the shame we feel has nothing to do with reality... Its just old lessons and mis-information. And we can release it! Follow these 3 easy steps to start releasing shame and feeling sexier at any weight! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6nolouIFuiM

By |2018-09-23T20:41:14+00:00December 13, 2014|Delivery|
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Trouble Orgasming

Cathy: A lot of women have trouble orgasming. Reid: What? That explains everything. Cathy: They may not be able to orgasm with a partner or by themselves or they may just be, it may take them a long time or it might be a struggle for them. Reid: I just thought it was me. Cathy: It is you sweetie. Reid: It's me, so me, if anyone can orgasm around me is a miracle. I'm Reid [...]

By |2016-01-06T08:18:31+00:00August 20, 2014|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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