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Approaching Your Partner About Anal Play

Cathy: Hi.  Have you ever wondered how to approach your partner about anal play? Reid: Whoa.  Man, easy.  Take it easy there. Cathy: Did you know there were 8,000 nerve endings in the anus? Reid: Whoa.  No wonder.  There's a cat walking around here. Cathy: Do you want to restart it? Reid: No.  That's life. Cathy: It's life. Reid: It's real.  Back to anal play.  Yikes. Cathy: How do you [...]

By |2016-01-06T08:34:47+00:00July 20, 2014|Dating, Sex Geeks|

I Want To Have A Threesome…What Do I Do?

Cathy: We had someone ask us- you're such a goof-ball. We had someone ask us, "Who do I or who to approach for a threesome and how to talk to them about it?" I know someone who runs a class on that. I thought we'd ask you. Reid: Yeah, just approach me. Next question. Cathy: How do you identify people that might be good for a threesome, and how do you invite them [...]

By |2016-01-06T08:37:36+00:00June 29, 2014|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Safer Sex Elevator Speech On The Third Date? When To Bring This Up

Ever wonder how to have "The Talk" with your date? Reid and Cathy discuss when to share the safer sex elevator speech. Discussing safer sex issues and concerns can bring a lot of ease to a new or an established connection, and sets the groundwork for talking about challenging things. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they discuss the Safer Sex Elevator Speech. [...]

By |2016-01-06T10:20:52+00:00June 16, 2014|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Penis Size, Sexual Shame and Confidence

Are you concerned about your penis size? Or love someone who has concerns about their size? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they discuss how penis size can effect people's sexual confidence, and share tips on how to be more confident. Cathy: Hey everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Today we're talking about penis size. (Laughs) A lot [...]

By |2016-01-06T08:45:40+00:00June 10, 2014|Body Image, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

Delayed Ejaculation: Suggestions with Humor

If you have trouble ejaculating, or have a partner who does, this video will give you insights and ideas to help. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to talk about delayed ejaculation and increase pleasure. Cathy: Hi, I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We have a video on premature ejaculation. Reid: It's really shitty. Cathy:  (Laughs) Oh my God! [...]

By |2016-01-04T12:59:45+00:00July 21, 2013|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Reid’s Safer Sex Elevator Speech

Ever wonder how to have "The Talk" with your date? Discussing safer sex issues and concerns can bring a lot of ease to a new or an established connection, and sets the groundwork for talking about challenging things. Cathy: Have you ever wondered how to talk to someone about safer sex, STDs, or whether it's comfortable to go to bed with them? Reid: When it's time for the talk, do [...]

By |2016-01-06T10:21:45+00:00July 6, 2013|Body Image, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Gender and Identity with Allison Moon

Allison Moon from http://www.LesbianWerewolves.com joins Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and about gender and identity. Cathy: Hey, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com here with Allison Moon from http://LesbianWerewolves.com. So you teach some classes approach. Can you share a little bit for people that -- a lot of people think everything is very binary, and you're either male or female and you should be more to attract someone. And to [...]

By |2016-01-07T09:35:38+00:00June 21, 2013|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

As A Woman Who Likes Women…What Is Your Favorite Thing About A Vulva?

Allison Moon from http://www.LesbianWerewolves.com joins Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and shares what she most likes about vulvas... learn more here! Cathy: Hey, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com, and I'm here today with Allison Moon from http://LesbianWerewolves.com. Hey, Allison! Allison: Hi! How it's going? Cathy: Good! I'm so glad you're here with us. Allison: I'm glad I'm here too. Cathy: So as a woman who likes women, can you [...]

By |2016-01-06T08:57:32+00:00June 19, 2013|Body Image, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What is a Lesbian Werewolf?

Ever wonder what a Lesbian Werewolf is? Allison Moon from http://www.LesbianWerewolves.com joins Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and shares about her latest book and why she decided to write it. Cathy: Hey, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com here with Allison Moon from http://LesbianWerewolves.com. And we're asking Allison, what is a lesbian werewolf? Allison: Well, when a werewolf loves a werewolf very, very much. So lesbian werewolves, I wrote a [...]

By |2016-01-07T09:36:28+00:00June 17, 2013|Sex Geeks|

Clitorial Legs and How They Can Rock Her World

Cathy: Have you ever wondered about a woman’s clit? Did you know that the clit has legs? I actually didn’t know this. I had one for 40-some years before I found out, but it’s really fun. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Hi. And this is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And… Reid: Today we’re talking about the clitoral legs. Cathy: They’re amazing. Reid: They are amazing. So without [...]

By |2016-01-07T06:43:03+00:00June 15, 2013|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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