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Vaginal Shame? Afraid You Smell Bad?

How do you handle vaginal shame when you think you smell bad? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you do when you have vaginal shame and you're afraid that you smell bad down there? Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: You have a vulva. Do you want to take this first, or should I? Cathy: Sure. [...]

By |2016-01-04T12:17:02+00:00November 27, 2015|Sex Geeks, Shame|
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How Do You Deal With Someone Who Doesn’t Realize They’re Being Mean?

We all had someone that was mean to us, giving us advice on whatever, and they didn't realize that they're being mean...but they do come across sometimes very judgmental or harsh. Do you know how to deal with mean people, and with someone who doesn't even realize they're being mean? Hear relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com talk about different ways to deal with men people. Cathy: A while ago we did a couple [...]

By |2016-01-05T06:01:44+00:00July 11, 2015|Relationship Skills, Shame|
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How Do I Know If My Partner Is Faking It?

How do you know if your partner had orgasm? We all have faked orgasm before, it's true, we do sometimes. What you want to start doing is start talking to each other about the kind of sex that you like. What gets you off, what doesn't get you off, when you're not having the sex. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and find out more about [...]

By |2016-01-04T12:42:41+00:00June 26, 2015|Body Image, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch|
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How Can I Receive Compliments Better?

Receiving compliments can be a challenge. How can you make it easier to accept compliments? A lot of people, especially women, are taught not to receive them very well. We're taught that if we say "Oh, thank you," that that will be kind of prideful or selfish - that we should not receive compliments. But it does hurt when you say something genuine to someone and they reject it. Join [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:18:16+00:00May 13, 2015|Body Image, Flirting, Shame|
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Feeling Vulnerable Saying “I Love You”?

Do you ever wonder why is it so hard to say "I love you" and how can you get better at it? And, why do people make a war out of who says it first? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share how to say "I love you" easier. Cathy: We had a question from someone who watched our video on how to know [...]

By |2016-01-05T06:11:52+00:00April 28, 2015|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Shame|
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Mismatched or Different Sex Drives in a Relationship

When we're talking about issues of libido, we have to ask ourselves, if there've been any recent changes in ourselves, your lovers' lives that could be the cause of the decreased libido. The second thing to start looking at, then, is there something that's going on between you two relationship wise that you don't have matching libidos? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about [...]

By |2016-01-04T12:49:18+00:00April 22, 2015|Dating, Energy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|
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Fitting In A Group Faster

A lot of people feel that they don't fit in.  But there are some simple steps that you can take to help you start being part of the group a little bit faster. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about how to fit in a group faster. Cathy: Reid and I both run events and we have people asking "How can I fit in with [...]

By |2016-01-04T13:42:10+00:00April 7, 2015|Event, Shame|
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I’m Always The Cool Girl Friend… Never the Girlfriend, How Do I Get Out There?

Are you always the cool girl friend and never the cool girlfriend? Do you hate the idea of being shut down? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about how you can deal with that fear of being shut down. Cathy: We shot a video a while ago about being stuck in the friend zone. Reid: It's a Kenny Loggins song, right? Cathy: It's [...]

By |2016-01-05T10:06:01+00:00March 29, 2015|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Shame|
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Break Up Tips To Make Things Easier For Your Ex

You cared enough to date them. How can you make things easier for your ex during and after a break up? Join Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they discuss making breaking up easier! Cathy: How can you make breakups easier for your ex? Reid: How can you make breakups easier? Cathy: Usually it's someone you cared about enough at least to be in a relationship with.  So, [...]

By |2016-01-05T10:12:21+00:00June 27, 2014|Dating, Relationship Skills, Shame|
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Sexual Preferences and Body Image

Do you ever find yourself being attracted to aspects of people that you think you shouldn't like? Or not being attracted to people you think you should like? Join Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they discuss preferences, attraction, and image! Cathy: Today we're talking about body preference and body image.  A lot of people think that you have to like what's PC, and our bodies don't [...]

By |2016-01-07T09:27:27+00:00June 24, 2014|Body Image, Dating, Shame|
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