How Do I Start Meeting People In A New City? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dUcob4aB_XA Cathy: Quick question, as a super single 20-something in a new city what are tried and true ways I can use to start getting “out there”. Tinder was kind of weird for me and any advice from bona fide sex nerds with great sex life would be super appreciated. Reid: Yes. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: Reid Mihalko from [...]
Mildest to Wildest in a Play Party, What Does That Mean? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dSmj5DrYqf8 Cathy: If you’re at a play party and someone talks about sharing their mildest and wildest, what does that mean? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ A play party for those of you who are just tuning in is the newfangled word for an orgy and yes there are orgies happening all [...]
When Should You Take Care Of Someone Else's Feelings? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4mdsQXw6Ns Cathy: Do you feel obliged to take care of other people? When is it appropriate to look after someone else’s feeling? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ and we got the memo today coz we’re wearing shirts that are almost the same color if you haven’t noticed it. Cathy: Almost, yeah, yeah. Reid: [...]
Poly or Kink-Friendly Therapist, Where Can I Find them? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sUjviQzwvrI Cathy: How do I find a good poly or kink-friendly therapist? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And someone wrote in and said they were looking for a therapist and they weren’t sure how to find someone who is poly or kink-friendly. I think one of the first things I would do is [...]
We're A Married Couple, How Do We Find A Threesome Partner? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L2PaIX-yFao Cathy: So someone wrote in and said, I just started listening to Everyone Wants to Have Better Sex with Crystal Bergen and I love it especially the threesome episode with Reid. So, cut into a chase, how does a married couple go about finding someone you could to have a threesome with? This is Reid Mihalko from [...]
How To Be Self-Expressed But Not Shower Emotion All Over Others? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z6ZPLK80LbY Cathy: When you’re trying to be self-expressed, how do you not drip your emotions all over the other person? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Explain your terms. Cathy: So we talk often about being self-expressed and have your emotions and being able to share like hey I’m disappointed, or hey that [...]
You're Not In The Mood To Flirt, How Do You Say No? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6L3zrcAw1co Cathy: How do you say no to flirting? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Hi Cathy. Cathy: Hey Reid. Reid: How do you say no to flirting? Cathy: Oh, you’re being really obvious. Reid: Yeah. How do you say no? Cathy: Reid, I’m notice. I’m thinking that you’re flirting with [...]
How Do You Not Feel Jealous Or Insecure If You Have a Threesome And Your Partner is With Someone Else For the First Time? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yA2_B5hmYh4 Cathy: How do you not feel jealous or insecure if you have a threesome and your partner is with another woman for the first time? Reid: Or another man? Oohh.. Cathy: Yes. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And Reid [...]
Are You Ready For A Threesome? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qvzcj86S1h8 Cathy: How do you know if you’re ready for a threesome? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ How do you know? How do you know Cathy? Cathy: Ahhh! It’s a good question. If you’re even, the person who wrote in is actually a part of a couple, but whether you’re part of a [...]
Reid Was Nominated For 2 XBIZ Awards and What is XBIZ? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GojFH3OjIqI Cathy: So Reid you’re here all dressed up from XBIZ, can you tell us about XBIZ? Reid: So first everyone needs to know I’m Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: And the Airlines lost my luggage so all I have right now is my tux so [...]
