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My Husband Cuts Me Off… What Can I Do?

Feeling unseen and unheard? Getting cut off? What can you do?With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: A writer, writes in ... or a commenter ... writer? They could be a writer? A commenter who could be a writer, writes in. "When I'm talking, my husband will abruptly say, 'Got it.' How do you convey it is dismissive and actually, as you said, can leave me [...]

By |2016-01-06T10:32:59+00:00September 28, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Caught In A Lie… The Second Time?

What can you do if you get caught in a lie... Again. With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: One of our listeners wrote in and said that … It was about our video about cleaning up issues and if you were caught lying. He was cheating on a test and got caught. Reid: Oh! Cathy: His teacher caught him. The problem is this is not [...]

By |2016-01-05T08:03:20+00:00September 25, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Why Do You Want To Be In A Relationship?

How can you have a "conscious" relationship? Why do you want to be in a relationship? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Why be in a relationship? Oh my God. Have you ever really asked yourself that question? Why be in a relationship? What are you trying to get your needs met, or are you just in a relationship because back in high school it [...]

By |2016-01-05T08:44:46+00:00September 22, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Can You Spread Herpes By Kissing?

If you have Herpes on your genitals, can you spread it by kissing? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: If you have herpes on your penis and you kiss someone, will you give them herpes? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: That is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And the answer is no, unless you've just touched your penis with your hand and then [...]

By |2016-01-05T07:29:58+00:00September 19, 2015|Sex Geeks|

What Do You Do About A Mini-Stalker?

How do you handle someone who is SOOO excited about you that they mini-stalk you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: How do you deal with someone who mini-stalks you? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We've all had times where people really enjoyed being with us or we've enjoyed being with them, but sometimes people don't [...]

By |2016-01-05T08:37:33+00:00September 16, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills|

What Is Attraction and Arousal?

What is attraction? Arousal? Understanding the difference can help you deal with these emotions and make them more fun! With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What is attraction and arousal? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: If you forget by now, that's pretty bad. Reid: I know. Cathy: We just did a video on how to handle it if [...]

By |2016-01-05T07:33:11+00:00September 15, 2015|Sex Geeks|

When Someone Says Really Mean Things… What Do You Do?

What to do when someone says something really mean to you? Examples with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: From the road. Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: And Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Answering your questions to our videos. Cathy: In reply to our video on how to handle mean people, how to deal with them. Reid: Somebody left a really mean comment. Cathy: Yes. Reid: [...]

By |2016-04-12T22:45:38+00:00September 10, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills, Trauma|

Appreciation and How To Know What To Appreciate People For

How can appreciation light up your partner's world, and how can you know what to appreciate them for? The Appreciation Game. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com share. Reid: This just in. You know who you are. We won't say your name but you left this comment, "I never comment in these but I always watch and absolutely adore this channel." You'll be watching this video. We're [...]

By |2016-01-05T06:05:18+00:00September 7, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Can You Get Herpes From Non-Sexual Touch?

Can you spread or get Herpes from touch? Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com share. Reid: Yeah. Cathy: So Reid… Reid: Yeah. Cathy: Can you get herpes II from cuddling? Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: The answer is technically yes.  Don't get scared kids, or adults, or anybody who’s watching.  There's a lot to talk about.  But first, if [...]

By |2016-01-05T07:31:35+00:00September 4, 2015|Sex Geeks|

How To Use Gossip To Improve Your Relationships!

Can gossip really HELP your relationships and build community? Learn how...Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com share. Reid: Do you enjoy gossip? Cathy: When can gossip actually be good for your community? Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: This will be the only time we ever tell you to gossip, because gossip actually, while it's been studied and serves a [...]

By |2016-04-13T04:26:12+00:00September 1, 2015|Relationship Skills|
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