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Get Slutty with Dossie Easton!

If you'd like to meet one of America's most outspoken, shameless and delightful sex positive activists, join us for an intimate evening on Sunday, September 29th, at the Bridge Bistro for an exclusive night with Dossie Easton and friends, MC'ed by the hilarious and always entertaining Reid Mihalko!! Join like minded, extraordinary people in our post-Beyond Vanilla bliss as we wind down together with keynote speaker Dossie Easton and enjoy [...]

By |2013-08-29T23:28:01+00:00August 29, 2013|Event, Relationship Skills|

What To Do When Someone Is Really Clingy

Dealing with clingy people can be overwhelming and unsettling. Learn how to create boundaries, talk to people and upgrade your relationships. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they discuss dealing with clingy people in an empowered way. (Please note, we decided not to chop the beginning, and let you see how truly goofy Reid is!) Cathy: Luckily, I can edit these and chop off [...]

By |2016-04-18T11:32:40+00:00July 24, 2013|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Delayed Ejaculation: Suggestions with Humor

If you have trouble ejaculating, or have a partner who does, this video will give you insights and ideas to help. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to talk about delayed ejaculation and increase pleasure. Cathy: Hi, I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We have a video on premature ejaculation. Reid: It's really shitty. Cathy:  (Laughs) Oh my God! [...]

By |2016-01-04T12:59:45+00:00July 21, 2013|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Reid’s Safer Sex Elevator Speech

Ever wonder how to have "The Talk" with your date? Discussing safer sex issues and concerns can bring a lot of ease to a new or an established connection, and sets the groundwork for talking about challenging things. Cathy: Have you ever wondered how to talk to someone about safer sex, STDs, or whether it's comfortable to go to bed with them? Reid: When it's time for the talk, do [...]

By |2016-01-06T10:21:45+00:00July 6, 2013|Body Image, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Disclaimer, Disclosure, and Privacy Policy

Disclaimer The information and coaching we provide is intended to educate, inform, amuse, and inspire you on your personal journey towards optimal health and a thriving life. It is clearly not intended to replace a one-on-one relationship with a qualified health care or legal professional and is definitely not intended as medical or legal advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are under the care of any health professionals (or should [...]

By |2018-02-27T02:18:05+00:00July 5, 2013|Uncategorized|

Vaginal Shame And What You Can Do

Dealing with Vaginal Shame, or care about someone who is? A frank discussion about sexual shame and how to reconnect with your vagina and how to help others feel more self-love. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as Reid shares his Safer Sex Elevator Speech. Cathy: Hi I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We're talking about vaginal shame. Reid: In this [...]

By |2016-01-06T08:55:48+00:00June 30, 2013|Body Image, Relationship Skills, Shame|

Gender and Identity with Allison Moon

Allison Moon from http://www.LesbianWerewolves.com joins Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and about gender and identity. Cathy: Hey, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com here with Allison Moon from http://LesbianWerewolves.com. So you teach some classes approach. Can you share a little bit for people that -- a lot of people think everything is very binary, and you're either male or female and you should be more to attract someone. And to [...]

By |2016-01-07T09:35:38+00:00June 21, 2013|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

As A Woman Who Likes Women…What Is Your Favorite Thing About A Vulva?

Allison Moon from http://www.LesbianWerewolves.com joins Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and shares what she most likes about vulvas... learn more here! Cathy: Hey, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com, and I'm here today with Allison Moon from http://LesbianWerewolves.com. Hey, Allison! Allison: Hi! How it's going? Cathy: Good! I'm so glad you're here with us. Allison: I'm glad I'm here too. Cathy: So as a woman who likes women, can you [...]

By |2016-01-06T08:57:32+00:00June 19, 2013|Body Image, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What is a Lesbian Werewolf?

Ever wonder what a Lesbian Werewolf is? Allison Moon from http://www.LesbianWerewolves.com joins Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and shares about her latest book and why she decided to write it. Cathy: Hey, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com here with Allison Moon from http://LesbianWerewolves.com. And we're asking Allison, what is a lesbian werewolf? Allison: Well, when a werewolf loves a werewolf very, very much. So lesbian werewolves, I wrote a [...]

By |2016-01-07T09:36:28+00:00June 17, 2013|Sex Geeks|

Clitorial Legs and How They Can Rock Her World

Cathy: Have you ever wondered about a woman’s clit? Did you know that the clit has legs? I actually didn’t know this. I had one for 40-some years before I found out, but it’s really fun. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Hi. And this is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And… Reid: Today we’re talking about the clitoral legs. Cathy: They’re amazing. Reid: They are amazing. So without [...]

By |2016-01-07T06:43:03+00:00June 15, 2013|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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