Body Image

Penis Size, Sexual Shame and Confidence

Are you concerned about your penis size? Or love someone who has concerns about their size? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they discuss how penis size can effect people's sexual confidence, and share tips on how to be more confident. Cathy: Hey everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Today we're talking about penis size. (Laughs) A lot [...]

By |2016-01-06T08:45:40+00:00June 10, 2014|Body Image, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|
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When You Fat Shame Yourself

When you fat shame yourself, you send a message to others that they aren't ok, either. Our culture teaches us to put ourselves down, but is that loving for ourselves or to the friends around us? Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Ashley Manta from http://www.AshleyManta.com share. Cathy: Hi, everyone. Today, we're talking about fat shaming again and what happens when you start shaming yourself around other people. I'm Cathy Vartuli from [...]

By |2016-01-07T09:35:12+00:00June 2, 2014|Body Image, Collaborators, Shame|
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Feeling Guilty For Not Having It Together As An Educator/Coach and Feminist

If you're a feminist or an educator, you may want to be strong and solid about accepting yourself and being accepting. But we all have bad days. Do you ever feel bad about feeling bad?? Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Ashley Manta from http://www.AshelyManta.com share. Cathy: Do you ever feel bad because you're feeling bad? Especially if you're a sex educator or feminist you think that ... you're out there [...]

By |2016-01-08T05:56:16+00:00May 30, 2014|Body Image, Collaborators, Shame|
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3 Ways To Be Authentically Sexier This Summer

Tired of Cosmo and surface changes that leave you feeling empty? Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Ashley Manta from http://www.AshleyManta.com share how NOT to do it the Cosmo way, but rather how to create true sexiness and confidence this summer. Cathy: Hello everyone.  I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com and I'm here with Ashley Manta from http://AshleyManta.com. We're talking about body image and three ways that you can help yourself feel [...]

By |2016-01-06T08:54:51+00:00May 28, 2014|Body Image, Flirting, Relationship Skills|
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Does This Panel Make Me Look Fat: Body Image and Sexuality Live from CatalystCon East!

Size and body image can have profound and sometimes debilitating effects on a person's sexual self-esteem and self-expression. Internalized shame and feelings of inadequacy are often super-charged by the constant stream of external judgment, a barrage of media and marketing pressure (individuals are exposed to an estimated 300,000 negative images or comments about weight each year), and socially acceptable prejudice against those who don't conform. People of size can be [...]

By |2016-01-05T10:44:54+00:00May 27, 2014|Body Image, Collaborators|
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Reid’s Safer Sex Elevator Speech

Ever wonder how to have "The Talk" with your date? Discussing safer sex issues and concerns can bring a lot of ease to a new or an established connection, and sets the groundwork for talking about challenging things. Cathy: Have you ever wondered how to talk to someone about safer sex, STDs, or whether it's comfortable to go to bed with them? Reid: When it's time for the talk, do [...]

By |2016-01-06T10:21:45+00:00July 6, 2013|Body Image, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Vaginal Shame And What You Can Do

Dealing with Vaginal Shame, or care about someone who is? A frank discussion about sexual shame and how to reconnect with your vagina and how to help others feel more self-love. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as Reid shares his Safer Sex Elevator Speech. Cathy: Hi I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We're talking about vaginal shame. Reid: In this [...]

By |2016-01-06T08:55:48+00:00June 30, 2013|Body Image, Relationship Skills, Shame|
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As A Woman Who Likes Women…What Is Your Favorite Thing About A Vulva?

Allison Moon from http://www.LesbianWerewolves.com joins Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and shares what she most likes about vulvas... learn more here! Cathy: Hey, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com, and I'm here today with Allison Moon from http://LesbianWerewolves.com. Hey, Allison! Allison: Hi! How it's going? Cathy: Good! I'm so glad you're here with us. Allison: I'm glad I'm here too. Cathy: So as a woman who likes women, can you [...]

By |2016-01-06T08:57:32+00:00June 19, 2013|Body Image, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Premature Ejaculation

Cathy: Hi, everyone. Have you ever wondered... I'm sorry I'm messing this up, I don't know how to start this. Reid: You messed up prematurely? Cathy: I prematurely messed it up. Reid: Guess what this one is about. Premature ejaculation. Cathy: We've had several people email and asking for help with this, how do you deal with it. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: [...]

By |2016-01-04T13:01:20+00:00June 12, 2013|Body Image, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Safer Sex Talk

Cathy: Have you ever wondered how to talk to someone about safer sex issues, STDs, what you like in bed? Reid: Have you freaked out when it was time for the talk because you didn’t know what exactly was supposed to be in the talk or if it was a good time to have it? Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: And this is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. [...]

By |2016-01-11T10:52:35+00:00June 6, 2013|Body Image, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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