Body Image

Does Quality of Touch Matter?

Does Quality of Touch Matter? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qkPkTtDcECY Cathy: Does quality of touch matters when you’re on a date or hooking up? I’m Cathy Vartuli from from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com Yoni: I’m Yoni Alkan from http://www.ElementsofSexuality.com Liz: I’m Doctor Liz from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com Caroline: I’m Caroline Carrington from http://www.JewelInTheLotusCoaching.com Sexy Librarian: I’m also the talking librarian who is off screen. Liz: She’s a sexy librarian. Cathy: Yes. Caroline: Sexy, Sparkly librarian. Liz: So sparkly. So [...]

By |2017-08-28T18:03:02+00:00April 3, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Can You Own Your Own Sexuality? Part II With Jet Appling

How Can You Own Your Own Sexuality? Part II With Jet Appling https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Fj986XaKDE   Cathy: Have you wondered how to own your own sexuality? I’m here with Jet Appling from http://www.JetNoirMuse.com and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  And Jet, you’re so amazing on stage and I know you’ve dance all you you were just in Europe. You’re, you just seem so natural and authentic when you move and you own who [...]

By |2017-08-28T17:54:40+00:00March 31, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What About Consent? With Jet Appling

What About Consent? With Jet Appling https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L6nNaWtLxzs Cathy: Have you wondered about consent? I’m here with Jet Appling from http://www.JetNoirMuse.com and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com  and Jet you we’re talking a little earlier about consent and you were talking about how when you’re on stage, how you want consent from people before you don’t scrub them and flip them around, what other things do you have in there that [...]

By |2017-08-28T17:23:12+00:00March 28, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

What Can You Do If Someone Misuses “Feminism” For Their Own Agenda? (new w/ outro)

What Can You Do If Someone Misuses "Feminism" For Their Own Agenda? (new w/ outro) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RW1TBHUFVNU   Jet: I heard on  Facebook where they were talking about this new trend in fuck boy feminism where it’s basically some asshole misusing the label feminist or feminism in order to further their own agenda and they were manifesting it or this one example I should say this guy I guess he’s into [...]

By |2017-08-28T17:17:41+00:00March 25, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Can You Give Yourself Herpes if You Use Your Own Saliva as Lube?

Can You Give Yourself Herpes if You Use Your Own Saliva as Lube? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FMj0kaNFxRg Cathy: If I use my own saliva, can I give myself herpes? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: What a great question. Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com/. Cathy: So this person wrote in that they were using their own saliva as lube and they have Herpes 1, [...]

By |2017-08-28T16:16:23+00:00March 16, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma, Uncategorized|

I Can’t Orgasm With A Condom On – Help!

I Can't Orgasm With A Condom On - Help! Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KZRdswttC_s&feature=youtu.be   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said I’m really, I’ve never been able to cum while wearing a condom during sex. I’m trying to be safer but I feel like it’s almost like a waste of time. I’ve tried masturbating with a condom too, nothing works. I don’t orgasm with a condom [...]

By |2017-08-28T16:01:39+00:00March 13, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do You Balance Multiple Lovers In Bed?

How Do You Balance Multiple Lovers In Bed? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a5gW8sfdc40&feature=youtu.be Cathy: So someone wrote in and asked what are some techniques and ways I can please multiple partners if I’m a swinger or a poly? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Get them other lovers and partners. Cathy: I think they mean in the moment you have multiple lovers [...]

By |2017-08-28T15:53:52+00:00March 10, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Sexual Invitation: When Is It Wanted, When Is It Not?

Sexual Invitation: When Is It Wanted, When Is It Not? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SoVPEe9qyDs&feature=youtu.be Cathy: How do you know when sexual invitation is welcomed and when it would feel intrusive? This Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And I think we all have times whether we did this or someone else did this were they were kinda hinting it or asking for sexual [...]

By |2017-08-28T15:29:01+00:00March 4, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Should You Always Come Clean and How To Make Sure Your Partner Won’t Walk Out?

How would you know your partner won't crack up if you come clean? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: This was a question in response to our coming clean video. And the person wrote in and said, “How can you be sure that your partner will just freak out and walk away? Or is it better to come clean regardless of what will happen? When [...]

By |2017-05-12T17:16:15+00:00February 23, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Touch|

What Do I Do When My Boyfriend Doesn’t Say He Loves Me Or Even Likes Me?

What if your partner never says they love you or verbally shows their affection? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Our microphone’s showing. Cathy: Oh, no. Reid: Sorry. Sorry about that. Magic! Movie magic! Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I have an anonymous question for you”, and we have a video on that that we’re gonna shoot again. Anyway, someone wrote in and said, “This isn’t [...]

By |2017-05-12T16:17:44+00:00February 14, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Touch|