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Giving Your Partner Feedback In Bed… How Do You Do That?

Want to see a role modeling of giving feedback in bed? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is awesome. We're going to get so meta. We're talking about how you can give your partners upgrades about certain things ...  Cathy: In bed.  Reid: In bed.  Cathy: Yeah.  Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com...  Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Reid: We're just going to do this [...]

By |2016-01-04T09:49:03+00:00June 27, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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If You Don’t Want To Have Sex With Your Partner… Should You?

Do you tell your partner if you're not in the mood to have sex? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Welcome back. Or if this is the first video that you are watching. Welcome for the first time.  Cathy: We are talking about how you can talk to your partner about not wanting to have sex, and do it in the most loving way [...]

By |2016-01-04T09:33:49+00:00June 24, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|
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What If You Tell A HUGE Lie?

How do you clean it up if you tell a big lie, and don't know what to do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We have a video about what to do if you tell a lie and get caught in it. Why did you do that?  Reid: I do that when I lie.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: Cathy Vartuli [...]

By |2016-01-05T08:02:29+00:00June 21, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|
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When Desire Goes Away… What Do You Do?

If you've been enjoying sex and sensuality... what do you do when all of sudden the passion and wanting go away? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What if you've been pretty sexual, pretty sensual and all of the sudden the desire goes away? It can be really hard and really confusing. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. What [...]

By |2016-01-04T09:47:47+00:00June 18, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|
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Talking To Your Partner About Touch You Don’t Like In Bed

How can you offer your partner an upgrade about touch in bed? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you if your partner's touching you in ways that you don't particularly like?  Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from The Intimacy Dojo. The long suffering Cathy Vartuli.  Reid: It's awesome. The long suffering Cathy Vartuli.  Cathy: This is [...]

By |2016-01-04T09:44:20+00:00June 15, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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How Do You Play With A Bigger Person? How Do You Talk About It?

Is there a difference in being sexual with a bigger person? Can you talk about it? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So, what if you have never slept with a bigger person? And, you want to? How do you talk to them about what's going on and how to play with them?  Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli [...]

By |2016-01-04T09:41:18+00:00June 12, 2016|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Is Poly Just For The Rich and Educated?

Could being poly be "irresponsible" and the playground of the wealthy and educated only? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: In regards to the interview you did with Esther Perel and Diana Adams, which was really good-  Reid: Thank you.  Cathy: About polyamory, someone said, "Would these academic people think differently if they lost their prosperity? I'm convinced they would. These are results of [...]

By |2016-01-07T08:55:42+00:00June 6, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Can Knowing Your (And Your Partner’s) Cool Down Style Make A Difference When You Fight?

Most couples get angry sometimes. How do you cool down? And what are your needs around cooling down? Does it really matter? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: How do you cool down when you fight? There's actually something called cool down styles and ...  Reid: Fuck this.  Cathy: That's Reid Mihalco from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and he actually has an article on this on [...]

By |2016-01-07T08:58:44+00:00June 3, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills|
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What do you do when your libido is low?

Is lack of desire plaguing you? What can you do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you do if your desire level is really low and you're in a relationship or several?  Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Reid: What do you do?  Cathy: It's usually talk about different conversation formula. I think it's a lot [...]

By |2016-01-04T09:39:11+00:00May 31, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Do You Get Silent When You’re Disappointed? Can You Reclaim Your Voice?

Silence doesn't often get us what we want, and can leave people feeling disempowered. How can you share when you're disappointment? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, thanks for doing this video, it's about handling disappointment. Then she said, I usually stay silent when I'm disappointed. I'm finding that only causes pain and helpless feelings. I'm middle aged and trying [...]

By |2016-01-04T07:51:50+00:00May 22, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills|
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