https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lfv8YS0XeMI Cathy: In response to your webinar about my partner doesn't want to sleep with me, we've had a lot of people writing in about this. It's a great question. This woman wrote in and said, "In this situation, I'm the one who doesn't desire sex. It's just not there no matter what we've tried." They think it's menopause and hormones, but they're having trouble in their relationship because of [...]
How do you deal with it when you and your partner have an on again - off again sexual connection? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ASa5NMSWYU Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "We have had this relationship with this woman on and off again, and the -" Reid: Is it "we have had" or "I have had"? Cathy: This person wrote in, "I've been in [...]
What do you do if someone won't forgive you because you lied to him? What if he tells about it to your friends? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4H1tACnA2w8 Cathy: We've talked about people, “What happens if you tell a lie and how do you fix it?” Someone wrote in reply that, “But what if the person doesn't want to forgive you and what if [...]
How do you deal when your husband doesn't want to have sex with you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tZ7yxAv7n7c Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, "My husband and I have had frank discussions about our lack of sexual relations for the past several years. His final answer is, ‘I'm just not interested.’ That took me by surprise and I don't know [...]
What's the meaning of INCEL? Are there undateable people? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8EWmIBhf1Ck Cathy: Do you know what “Incel” means? And how to use it? Reid: How do you spell it? Cathy: I-N-C-E-L. Reid: Google it! Google fuckin’ exist. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Before you Google things, If you’re some junior, what’s ‘Incel’? [...]
What do you do if someone has a new cool sex toy and you want to see it? Do you just grab it? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G8o02f-kyAM Cathy: A good friend shows up with their brand new sex toy. So cool. Reid: It's so shiny. Cathy: It's nice and bright and it's one you've wanted to see forever. Reid: I want to touch [...]
When do you label a person as undateable? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cjyf3YQlumM Cathy: Is there anyone undateable? This is Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vatuli from the https://theintimacydojo.com/ Cathy: And BBC did a documentary called the Undateables, people that no ones dating and the person wrote in just find that people were just too older, too ugly for anyone to ever want [...]
Learn the different experiences when sharing vulnerability. With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l0aF0hbhZS0 Cathy: We talk a lot about vulnerability on these videos. And Reid and I were talking the other day and we kind of discovered we had different experiences when we shared vulnerably and we want to talk about that. This is Reid Mihalko http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: Yes. So, [...]
When is the time to turn aside and when do you keep on going? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z8Rj4vfGYfQ Cathy: How do you know when it’s time to end what you’ve thought of as a long term relationship? Reid: Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ Cathy: And Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: I don’t know. That’s a relationship [inaudible 00:00:15]. Oh, my goodness. Cathy: You actually [...]
If you're sure you want to keep things casual, how can you be clear and not lead women (or men) on? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HxYKu1KS7ys Cathy: Someone wrote in and then they said, “How can you be honest so you don’t lead women on? Yes, this is a gentleman writing who is heterosexual when you don’t want to hurt them by misrepresenting [...]
